ok so using the tips on here i get the girl of my dreams absolute 10 but now we broke up but the same night we talked about getting back together. we were both in love with each other but we broke up because she couldnt handle me not being motivated to do anything. i can understand that but we still talk about being together and talk about living together. now though she is having sex with some guy in NYC almost every day but she always wants to talk and we still talk hours on the phone. i just dont think if you love someone you have sex with someone else so im just confused. i cant get over her and idk what do you guys think any advice?