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    ok so using the tips on here i get the girl of my dreams absolute 10 but now we broke up but the same night we talked about getting back together. we were both in love with each other but we broke up because she couldnt handle me not being motivated to do anything. i can understand that but we still talk about being together and talk about living together. now though she is having sex with some guy in NYC almost every day but she always wants to talk and we still talk hours on the phone. i just dont think if you love someone you have sex with someone else so im just confused. i cant get over her and idk what do you guys think any advice?
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    Default Re: pretty lost about my ex

    Man, if you know for sure she is banging some other guy you need to start getting over her. That's pretty farked up. She's just keeping you in reserve in case something goes wrong with her current guy. Stop contacting her and ignore her and try to get with other women. She'll probably try to contact you but just tell her that you're done with her. From there you'll be in a decent position to try and get her back, but if it was me I would try to get over her and find someone else asap. Imagine being married to her always knowing that at one point she left you to fark someone else. She's just using you.

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    yea i guess i know the answer already. just you know talked about a house what we would name kids being old together. so i thought this was the one. just sucks
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    Default Re: pretty lost about my ex

    I know, believe me, I know. My ex and I talked about getting married and living together and all of that stuff. I thought she was the one too.

    Read "Way of the Superior man"
    Start going to the gym on a regular basis and lift heavy
    Just try to think about anything that interests you if you start thinking about her

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    Default Re: pretty lost about my ex

    ok i will. but im not small i am defined and pretty good looking. just now my confidence and well not to happy now so it would be hard for me to try and pick up girls right now
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    You don't have to pick up girls, just do something that will take your mind off this and better yourself.

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    ok thanks guys. i know you guys are all helping me i thank you guys so much i know you guys always have my back
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    Default Re: pretty lost about my ex

    Go to gym, be with your friends, travel, read something, watch movies, go out, flirt with other girls, talk with them, be friendly, etc ... Thats helps me, i was in your skin some time ago, my ex left me and went to another man. Now i'm stronger, dating another women and i realized that my ex is not worth of me. Good luck bro

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    Default Re: pretty lost about my ex

    want my advice bro?? by the way i am going through my own journey of getting back my ex..

    here is what you need to do, don't EVER talk to her about you guys again.. just don't, i did this and it pushed her away even though she would sit on the phone and listen, it just doesn't work.. woman won't listen to logic and reason..

    also, keep in mind, EVERY Girl talks about marriage, kids, house, etc.. its just what they are programmed to do man..Unless they are more mature and usually that is rare.. when a girl is in a relationship and loves someone, she's going to talk about it.. my advice?? forget it.

    second, she's banging another guy, so this is defintely not a girl you want to be your wife..you get back with her and what? deal with the fact she had to go be with someone else before coming back to you? while saying she loved you? it would be different if you two weren't talking and she did this, but she's making you emotionally invested and doing this, completely messed up my brother.

    when she contacts you do not pick up don't text back, for at least a week minimum! this will drive her nuts, you need to create a mystery about yourself and make her think you are more alpha than the current guy..right now you are friend zoning yourself, and its not going to be well..

    you have to play the games with the females, as bad as it is, its just how it has to be..this is what they respond to, emotion, not logic or reason..if she is persistant on contacting you, tell her you need space and to respect you..push her VERY far away, she will come running

    good luck

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    Default Re: pretty lost about my ex

    I agree with victory37, i also tried to use logic, and i failed cause i didnt know how stuff works Bro, she is farking with another man, do you really want her back?


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