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    Default Event with my EX. Success story?

    For those of you that already know my story, I have just got back from the wedding in which my ex and I were in. For those of you that don't, She broke up with me two months ago when we were already going to be in a wedding together. I am pleased to say that it couldn't have been much better. Hopefully I can keep this story short.

    Well it started out at the groomsmen dinner, I got there first and was nervous as all hell. She came and it was clear that she was way more nervous than I was. It honestly looked like she was going to cry the entire time. We hugged said hi and chatted a bit. I was very social with everybody and had a great time. Through the dinner and the rehearsal we made eye contact a few times.

    Fast forwarding to the wedding. After the wedding pictures were done, we sort of sat around waiting for the wedding. We chatted a few times off and on and she seemed to be hanging around me a lot. Then came the interesting conversation. She asked if we could finally be friends again, and I said I thought we already were. She then asked me why I wasn't responding to her voice mail message thing that is an iphone app, which I do not have anymore and never received the messages. I explained that to her which was the truth. Then she brought up the break up and how I went froze her out. I told her that it was something I needed to do to find myself again. I then went on with what I have been planning to tell her if she brings up the break up.

    I admitted that I did not treat her well and that I was jealous of her accomplishments at school which was the truth. I would down play her accomplishments at school by turning it into an argument which was terrible but the truth. I told her she didn't deserve that and also said I hope who ever it is you date next doesn't treat you like I did. I finished by saying "All I want is for you to be happy".

    She looked surprised and didn't know how to react. We then sat there for a second and started to laugh. It was a great moment. We hung around each other off and on after that. Then there was the dance.

    We didn't pay much attention to each other at first and danced with other people. But then I asked her if she wanted to dance and she accepted. We danced with each other the rest of the night and we were really vibing. We were even dancing very close to each other during the slow dances.

    After the reception we went back to the hotel. I hung out with some of the friends in another room and then went to my room and went to bed. I had a text from her when I woke up asking if I had a bed to sleep in because there was an extra in her room. Weird eh? I walked by her once that morning and didn't pay any attention to her. I left for my buddy's after that.

    She text me a couple hours later asking how I was feeling and if I found my wallet, which I lost the night before. We chatted for a bit and I wished her a safe trip home. She seemed to want the conversation to continue but I ended it after she texted "haha" after I told a joke.

    Her actions are telling me that she is still interested in me but she still says things about the break up like it was for the best. Don't know what is going to happen now but she finally knows that I am fine without her. This is becoming a success story to me because I am starting to feel independent again. If nothing happens between us again, I can at least say that this weekend was some good closure. I am interested to see what will happen next.

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    Default Re: Event with my EX. Success story?

    good job man it can only get better
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: Event with my EX. Success story?

    Sounds like your doing well, keep it up, and I dunno, maybe next time she invites you into an extra bed take up the offer :P?!

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    Default Re: Event with my EX. Success story?

    Sounds great man. If she is still talking like that then keep physically escalating while agreeing with her the break up was for the best. I mean how do you think you got so close at the wedding? Imagine if you brought up the breakup first, or lost your cool and told her you missed her. She wouldn't have let you touch her I'm sure lol. But telling her that you're ok and want her to be happy gave her the emotional space she needed to chase you. So just keep getting close until you sleep together then you can talk about getting back together.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    That sounds like some solid advice Batman. I am going to continue what I have been doing and not take anymore steps back. This is a very good spot for me right now and I can't afford to lose my progress. I am going to wait for her to initiate contact for now. Sooner or later one of us will ask each other to hang out somewhere. We had to much fun at that wedding for things to end.

    Even if I would've got that text the night before I don't even think I would've answered. But who knows in my drunken state I might of.

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    Default Re: Event with my EX. Success story?

    nice bro!! so happy 4 u man, i thought i had momentum in my situation and i guess not

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    Default Re: Event with my EX. Success story?

    Sounds really good! Will definitely be interesting to see where it goes, but the best part is that you feel like even if you two dont get back together, you will be ok and move on... that must be an amazing feeling!

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    Default Re: Event with my EX. Success story?

    Well she text me yesterday talking about some mail that came for me to her apartment. We had some small talk and started to talk about how we never saw each other at the college, which led to me asking her if she wanted to come to a bar. My buddies and I were already going anyway. She was reluctant at first since she had to get up early but she decided to come with some other friends.

    Well we hung out and just had fun at the bar. Nothing really too spectacular happened. But we did talk to each other a lot. I plan on just waiting for her to contact me again. I am not going to make any sort of move until I know she wants to try again. I am ok with where things are at right now.

    We'll see what happens.

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    Default Re: Event with my EX. Success story?

    yo lucky man. and you did it in a professional way. aaaaaaaah, women? sometimes i dont understand women.they r abit complex. their nature is toooooooooo different

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    Default Re: Event with my EX. Success story?

    Nope not lucky. She just posted a pic of her and the guy she left me for as her profile pic. Whatever at least I kinda saw this coming. I'm glad she is happy.


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