I’m a good looking dude, muscular and ripped, brazilian, got a good job, a masters degree from a top university, adventurous… I am getting a bit older (34) and the looks don’t help as much. I still date the hottest girls I ever wished.
I met this girl online. We exchanged a few txt messages and a few pictures. We talked on the phone once. She finally calls me back after 3 days on a Friday inviting me to grab some food in Santa Monica, CA where she lives (40 minutes away from Long Beach where I live)
me: “I am going out in LA tonight. I think I can stop by on my way to see you”
She looked stunning, much better than the pictures. 25yo worth a 9.5 score. She is a successful independent woman, classy, smart and intelligent. We went food hoping (changing venues) in a busy street. At the last bar she introduced me to a few of her guy friends and she gave me all the IOIs I needed.
We sat for a glass of wine for almost 2 hours (yes I paid for everything). I made her laugh, played the cube, kill/shag/marry and other psychological games, read her hand and told some good stories about myself. Then I explained one of the psychology game and threw a Ross Jeffries script with it. I was able to arouse her within a few minutes even though I am still developing my NLP skills At this point, she would have goose bumps every time I talked closer to her skin.
I dropped her home but… guess what???
MISTAKE 1: I did not try to kiss her. For some reason I felt that I should not push for a kiss. I knew she was not going to invite me in or have sex with her.
Next morning she sends me a txt early in the morning.
she: “I had a great time with you last night. Hope to hang out again soon”
me: “I will be straight with you. I don’t play games. If you don’t have any plans, I would like to see you”
she: “I have plans today, but you could stop by sometime, or tomorrow we can hang out at the beach by my beach house”
me: “I was talking about tomorrow silly. I will see you around noon then”
MISTAKE 2: For some reason I felt that I should play hard to get. She is a 9 and I did not want to be the traditional guy. Still I caused a good impression but I did not have sex with her yet or kissed her. A few hours later I sent her a txt:
me: “Sorry babe, something came up and I wont be able to see you tomorrow. Lets reschedule and meet some other time
she: (no response)
I called her once next day and she did not pick up. She didn’t reply until the next day afternoon. When she sent
she: “I hope you are having a fun weekend”
(Awesome! She was kind of mad at me)
I sent a few playful messages. Including a picture with a hot girl friend of mine. But, until today (3 days after) she replies single line messages, 2 to 4 hours apart from my original message. Today she txted 8am:
she: “I will call you later in the evening”
I don’t think it went flawlessly because (I think) I made mistakes. I still got a good chance. Now, she is playing (I guess) hard to get and I want to break this cycle.
Any suggestions? Any thoughts?