Re: Strange break up has me dazed and confused
You don't want to ever let your girlfriend catch you being jealous. It's a beta trait and it automatically shut's down female attraction switches, which is why she went cold immediately and told you that you were being manipulative and jealous.
Are you wrong for feeling that way? Absolutely not. Women are farking nuts man. They think everything that they do is absolutely fine but if you do the same to them they go crazy. I'm sure I would feel the same way that you felt in that situation and your girlfriend wouldn't be to happy either if the tables were turned and it was you cozying up to some chick to keep warm. That's logic and it makes perfect sense to us but women don't think logically alot of times--at least not as much as men do.
My advice in that situation is to get flirty with other women(in front of her)really fast, but don't do it in a way that would make her think you're trying to make her jealous! If that didn't correct her behavior then you don't have a conversation about it afterwards, you just give her the cold shoulder.
It sounds to me like you've been beta-backsliding which is why she's been stepping out of line. Stay strong and stick to nc. Hopefully it will respark her interest and she will see the error of her ways.
“The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of the engagement; you ought not to be thinking of whether it ends in victory or defeat. Let nature take its course, and your tools will strike at the right moment.” -Bruce Lee