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    Croikey22 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Exclamation Help me get my ex back

    I was with my ex for 5 yrs. we broke up about 4 months ago. We broke up because of my addiction to weed and lying about it. I took the break up real bad. Made all the classic mistakes of calling and txting when I was drunk and basically driving her away. I have since given up the weed and started to see a drug counciller for it and now been off the weed for last 8 weeks. About 4 weeks ago I seen her kissing another guy in the pub we usually go to.. It broke my heart and i went abit physco over it. She apologised because I saw tat but at the end of the day she is not mine anymore. About 2 weeks we become very close again. I helped her move house, started exercising together, take her to work every morning and spending a lot of time together. Last week we went out with a bunch of mates but she ended up doing the same thing again and went home with someone else. I didn't want to say anything cuz I don't wanna lose her as a friend. She is asking me for advice for the guy she is txting and kinda meeting but I didn't knw Wat to say cuz it's killIng me. I'm doing the best I can to change to show her that I'm not the same guy anymore.. I don't knw what to do anymore cuz I'm scared if I lay all my cards on the table then she is gonna wanna stop meeting and hanging out and I don't wanna lose that but a part of me is telling me that it mite be for the best.. Need some advice here. PLEASE HELP cuz I really love her and want her back!!

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    kapalago is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Help me get my ex back

    So sorry that you are facing that. hey, it happened to me 2 months back.
    but as u know women are like kids at times. but u be strong

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    Default Re: Help me get my ex back

    You're in a bad spot my friend. When they start asking you for dating advice it's definitely time to throw in the towel. I know that you want to keep her in your life but you can't be friends with this woman right now. You're too invested and her dating and moving on with her life is hurting you.

    What does your hand do when it is introduced to pain? It gets the fark away from what's causing the pain! Don't let your hand be smarter than you!!! Let her go until you have completely healed, then maybe you can decide how much you really care about the friendship that you two share.
    “The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of the engagement; you ought not to be thinking of whether it ends in victory or defeat. Let nature take its course, and your tools will strike at the right moment.” -Bruce Lee

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    baltazar is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Help me get my ex back

    You shouldn't be friend with her. Man, she seeing other guys, go in NC, you need time to heal yourself. i was in your skin few months ago, it was really hard but i get over it, i m not needy anymore, not acting like AFC, my self-confidens grow up. Don't be there for her, go out, start seeing other womens, go in gym (that helps) ...

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    Default Re: Help me get my ex back

    Know what I like to eat?



    Some people just don't get it.

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    baltazar is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Help me get my ex back

    cmon, ban this dude, he is spammer !!

    [DONE]

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    Default Re: Help me get my ex back

    I am real its what i encoutered i don;t lie to people on the forum.

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    baltazar is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Help me get my ex back

    You have 6 total posts, and from that six, five are same!

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    Default Re: Help me get my ex back

    Bye bye spammer lol.

    Seriously though you need time to yourself. You may be thinking that you are increasing your chances to get her back right now by being around, by helping her move, or being her friend, but that is false.

    You may also think that if you let her go then she will forget all about you altogether. This is also false.

    She is not going to suddenly wake up one morning and realize that you were the one and she wants you back. It doesn't work like that unfortunately.

    Let these two things go and work on yourself. Try to gain control over your focus and put your attention on other things. Such as a passionate hobbie, learning a new skill, exercising, or other women. The more you think about her and what's she's doing the more you're investing. Spend about 20-30 min reflecting and mourning a day, then spend the rest of the day doing other things that grab your focus.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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