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    Default Re: Please Help Guys Seriously Need Help With Ex GF

    Guys im losing it. I am resigned to the fact that its over. I feel ultra low at the moment. She replied "sorry, my phone has not been working, speak soon".

    Since then i txted her last night "lets meet up, im free monday or wednesday"

    she replied why? im not free of either!

    So i replied would like to chat. be good to see how you doing.

    She then replied "txt me some other time and if im available i will meet"

    Im livid so emotinal right now, the break up has finally hit me. I was living in a false emotional state before. Now im really feeling it.

    I need help more than ever now guys.

    I feel a great deal of anger as well. I mean she dumped me over the phone after 5 years and wont even give me the time of day, I cant actually believe it. Hardly slept last night!

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    Default Re: Please Help Guys Seriously Need Help With Ex GF

    Did you start texting her regularly again?

    Just go back to no contact. Game one of her friends.

    NT

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    Default Re: Please Help Guys Seriously Need Help With Ex GF

    My first wife told me she wanted a divorce over the phone when I was visiting my friends in Tennessee,,, so I know how much that sucks!

    The first couple months after a breakup from a Long Term relationship are the hardest.

    The best way to get past it, is to get active & involved in other social settings. Meet new people, go out with friends, take up new hobbies & activities... etc.

    Also- WRITING can be a great way to deal with it. Especially if you save it in a document form.... because you might discover that you have something worth turning into an eBook. Then you can publish it for free on sites like Amazon & actually make money!

    I have 2 short eBooks/guides on there at the moment & I'm getting sales.

    The Relationship / Self-Help niche is a hot subject! So, that might be something to look into.



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    Default Re: Please Help Guys Seriously Need Help With Ex GF

    listen my friend ,, You have to drop the ball ,, stop all kind of communication ,, i know that most of the replies will come as advice to forget about her and maybe some will advice you to try again ,, DONT ,, to be honest with you ,, you will never forget her and she will always stays in your memory for ever beacuse that what happens when you connect with someone for a long time but the good news is that by the time the pain and anger become less and less until it's not there anymore ,, all what i can tell you is to be patient and go after T-mal advice about being social and get out a lot ,, Just watch out and don't be stupid like some ppl who try to forget by drowning their self in the alcohol or any other shit ,, man what you need is to be self conscious and smart about that ,, Get back on your feet soon man , Cheers

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    Default Re: Please Help Guys Seriously Need Help With Ex GF

    Take heart all pua's have had rejections or been dumped, and the best think you can do now is get yourself together with self-improvements and boost your self-confidence. You are at an all time low now in the self-esteem department and the best thing you can do is stop all contact with her and start dating other HB's along with working on your inner self and game. And once you start living your life, and who knows you may enjoy the company of the other women you date she will get jealous and start chasing you, and then you can control the relationship if you so choose. Right now she has total control over you and what will happen next let it go for now!

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    Default Re: Please Help Guys Seriously Need Help With Ex GF

    Thanks guys.

    I came home after work today and just broke down into tears. It is so hard, I love her so much and don't want anyone else. She is perfect to me! I felt so attached and have never been comfortable with anyone as much as her. I just cant let her go. I wont let it happen! I cant.

    What about writing a letter after a week of no contact? Surely if she says she still loves me she might give me another chance? I'm shellshocked.

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    Quote Originally Posted by urbanhero View Post
    Thanks guys.

    I came home after work today and just broke down into tears. It is so hard, I love her so much and don't want anyone else. She is perfect to me! I felt so attached and have never been comfortable with anyone as much as her. I just cant let her go. I wont let it happen! I cant.

    What about writing a letter after a week of no contact? Surely if she says she still loves me she might give me another chance? I'm shellshocked.
    No minimum 2 weeks no contact now. Ignore her if she texts you and reply 3 days later say you were busy.

    NT

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    Default Re: Please Help Guys Seriously Need Help With Ex GF

    I know where you're at right now man. You think that she is the only one for you. The sun, moon, and stars all gravitate around this one woman. She's a goddess in your eyes right now. But you're forgetting all of the negatives...

    Your testicles are in a jar next to her nightstand. The worst part of all of this is that she knows that and this is most likely the underlying reason that the relationship went to shit in the first place. Alpha up my friend.

    The pain that your feeling right now isn't coming from her; it's coming from you. You're experiencing all of this because you need to level up and this is the universe's way of forcing you out of your comfort zone so you can. Without struggle there can be no progress. Take care of yourself friend. If she isn't coming back then believe me, there will be another one. They're like busses.
    “The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of the engagement; you ought not to be thinking of whether it ends in victory or defeat. Let nature take its course, and your tools will strike at the right moment.” -Bruce Lee

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    Default Re: Please Help Guys Seriously Need Help With Ex GF

    I don't think you can be "cured" of a gambling addiction buddy in one week - no disrespect. You need to focus on yourself. You are trying to hold on to her like a life preserver. Let go - you won't drown. It will be fine. All men have been where you are. Your relationship has failed. Most of them do buddy. Don't beat yourself up about it - you are doing all the right things right now: working on yourself, reaching out for support.

    So chillax. Breath out. There are heaps of cute girls out there. Let her go. Chances are you stopped having sex about two years ago anyways. The most important thing is you detach - and walk away, don't come unglued at the seams like so many people do in the space you are in right now. Because sure as shit - you ex is making all sorts of plans to move right along with her shiny new life without you buddy. Life - it is a combat sport: play it to win it. BTW I am trying to help you.

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    Default Re: Please Help Guys Seriously Need Help With Ex GF

    Guys i tried something I would never normally try but i think it worked!

    I added the girl i had been txted the other night to my twitter account and sent a funny tweet to her just saying stalker as she added me first.

    Within 20 mins of this my ex txted me "Just a txt to say have a lovely time in Notts this weekend.. Its so weird to know ur moving on, but ur happier than i ever made u, so thats good. I have a bag of ur stuff that i will get someone to drop round. I will always love u - thank u for 5 wonderful years.. going to miss u like crazy."

    I called her immedietly after and i acted really strong again. we had an amazing convo and agreed to meet next week. I played some games with you and made her laugh. She sounded up for getting back but would nt actually pose the question.

    The same day she also met up with my best friends girlfreind and the reports back i recieved is that i think she is missing me and wants to get back.

    I think its working guys.
    So thanks everyone so far you have been amazing, even if i dont end of getting back, to be in this position is fantastic.

    Im in Nottingham this weekend and shes in London, so i will leave No contact until next week. I plan to score some points with her family. Its her sisters birthday, i will send a card to her sister and leave it there.


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