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    Default Re: Please Help Guys Seriously Need Help With Ex GF

    Quote Originally Posted by urbanhero View Post
    I was thinking of going into no contact until after the weekend and then maybe trying to arrange a meet up. My friend thinks her single friends may be influencing her in not getting back with me. Is there anything i can do about this?
    Think I had this problem once, I think everyone trying to get there ex back does. I just went out with my friends happened to bump in to her friends one night and paid for most of their drinks all night long got them completely shit face and saw what sluts they were. Then at the end of it they were encouraging me and her to get back together. Or you could just try and make sure she knows its your relationship not theirs.

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    Default Re: Please Help Guys Seriously Need Help With Ex GF

    Massive help needed now. I dont know weather i have messed this up, but i wrote a message on twitter after a few days of silence saying - "the first time in a long time, someone other than my mum will bo cooking me roast dinner on sunday".

    I then re logged in and my ex had replied to me "i hope she is worth it". Then i went off. I then re logged on and she had erased that tweet.

    So i replied that exact message by txt to her i txted "i hope she is worth it?

    Since then she has sent a twitter message to a friend saying "i love you your advice is great" and she has since tweeting some random guy about 8 times. Probably in reaction to my tweet.

    I feel as though its like an emotional war at the moment and its starting to get me down. 1 min i think im in there and the next im struggling. Am i ruining this? I understand the competetive anxiety, but wont see just move on? Its a risky strategy, she might just get with someone else to get back at me e.g. rebound. but thats not what i want. Please help.

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    Default Re: Please Help Guys Seriously Need Help With Ex GF

    You're doing great, don't worry. She's trying to draw out the beta in you so she can shut you down and gain power over the situation. Don't let her know that you are even bothered whatsoever by her behavior. Stay the course and you've got a really good shot here.
    “The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of the engagement; you ought not to be thinking of whether it ends in victory or defeat. Let nature take its course, and your tools will strike at the right moment.” -Bruce Lee

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    Default Re: Please Help Guys Seriously Need Help With Ex GF

    Wow things have materialized!!! I have been gaming two other girls who are becoming very interested in me.

    We spoke on Saturday (she rang me) and she told me that she needed to tell our mutual friends weather we could meet up in December (they live in Ireland). I said "i dont know, that is ages away, we could of moved on and/or have partners. They wud'nt like going out with the ex!". We talked for a while and it was all positive.

    Then we spoke on Sunday (we both agreed to this last week) and she said she was out until 6 in the morning with her friend talking to guys. I didn't react at all and just said "sounds fun". We then agreed to meet this week, i said i was available TUES/WEDS. She said "i need to check my diary."

    I waited for her to get back to me but it was eating me alive - that comment "check my diary" - eventually i snapped and text her "i been thinking, maybe we shud'nt meet up". And then left it. She tried txting me twice and i didn't reply. She then called. We had a little argument and she accused me of getting with another girl. She thought that was why i didn't want to meet! I said im not playing her games anymore, telling me one thing, then another. I said you let me get a little close, then your immature". She then initiated a meet tonight and she said it will be our first date!

    You guys have been fantastic! so far so good!

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    Default Re: Please Help Guys Seriously Need Help With Ex GF

    Great work here man! Her bringing up hanging out talking to other guy's was a major shit test and you passed with flying colors. I really like that she is accusing you of getting with another girl. This is exactly what you want her to think but you don't need to throw it in her face--her imagination will do all the work for you. Notice though that she is pushing and pulling you... Flip it around on her! Good luck to you my friend.
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    Default Re: Please Help Guys Seriously Need Help With Ex GF

    Right guys loads to catch up on. I have lost my oneitis! I went out last friday gamed a girl, ended up back at a hotel with her all night! It felt good!

    Problem is - i then met my ex on sunday and went to thorpe park. We had a great time and i ended up doing stuff sexually with her also in my car.

    What do i do now? I have gone back into no contact with both the girls and am txting someone completly different now. I still want her but what do i do and say?


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