I would be internally grateful if you could help me.
My girlfriend just broke up with after 5 years of being together. I feel awful, struggling to eat and desperately want her back!
We had 3 amazing years together until i fell into gambling problems, i lied to her saying i had stopped, but continued anyway, i then blurted all out to her and at the same time became depressed.
I have entered NC since the break up which was 3 days ago, she has sent 1 txt which was to wish me luck on my job interview today, which again i did not reply to!
She said she loved me and she could'nt see a future without me and said we needed a break. I said how long? she said i dunno a week? a month? If we were made for each other it will just happen!
I am now baffled as to what to do, i agree NC is best to begin with but how long do I leave it??
I know eventually if i do get a chance i need to try and add some spice to the relationship, which might help me as i have been reading the GAME again and am confident of getting things going again.
I'm in complete despair please please help. i will do anything to get her back!!