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    Default Re: Getting Your Ex Back - Philosophy, how I did it and how I'm doing it no

    "It's almost like the things I found most attractive in you have been polished up and are so much better now!" - This was a genuine quote from my ex, who is now my girlfriend again after a weekend full of sex!

    I want to break my strategy down into a few simple steps. I guarantee these will work as well as strategies you read about in expensive ebooks.

    - Make her miss you. (You don't have to use no contact as such. Going away for a few days to somewhere else is very effective too)
    - Don't be afraid to freeze her out, delay answering her calls and texts.
    - Make yourself appear as high value as possible.
    - Establish what parts of you she was initially attracted too. When you find them refine and amplify them.
    - If you meet up with her, be as confident and as charismatic as possible. I recommend calling her first a few times, preferably get her to call you. This allows you to a) get rid of a lot of nerves when talking to her and b) you can present a highly confident you without putting much effort into it. Also use Kino, but not as soon as you meet up with her. As well as that employ a strategy of two steps forward and one step back. Don't move too quickly and get her as wet as possible.
    You only deserve success if you want it as much as being able to breathe.

    Aspire to inspire.

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    snake49 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Getting Your Ex Back - Philosophy, how I did it and how I'm doing it no

    Seems you may be on to somthing, good for you. How would you attempt to not get this ex back in this situation, but get her to be attracted or to at least get her to attempt to reconnect with me. I would like to fvk her agiain, at least just one more time.

    Anyway, im gonna keep this short, its since Aug 27th 2010 since we have spoke. She dumped me for her ex & decided to marry him, she had a kid by him once, now she has had another last April a yr ago.
    Of course she told me all the bs, she loves me etc, etc but she made a commitment to him & has to stay, bla, bla,. We had great sex!!! She always told me , best she ever had ...problem is she' 28 yrs younger then me! And she was pretty wild, half asian, HB8 in my book, now since the baby shes put on wieght but still maybe a 6.5!

    So, I blked her from fb aboiut 6 times so far, & currently have her blked now. We live about 7 miles apart. When she broke up w me, I told her I would disappear from her life completely, well she has pulled a dissapearing act on me. She does not go to any of the plces we went to at all. I've seen her slowly drive by my house about a doz times, last time was around May, but nothing since.

    I did a couple stupid things like break NC about 10 times by sending her happy B day emails, wishing her merry Christmas emails etc. Of course no replys from her at all. Everytime I do unblock her on FB, a pic of her out partying w friends appears, its weird. maybe my imagination, but i've tested it by sending her an email on how i like the pic, and then it disapears. So, ive stopped sending her emails, NC contact via emails or text for about 2 mths now & ive blked her on FB again. I sent her sis a happy b day on her fb page which I know was dumb because her sis & I are not even close at all.

    Anyway, this girl was crazy about me, and I think if I do the right things maybe she just might at least contact me. 1st, im thlinking of unblking her and putting some good fb pics of me up? But anyway, what would you do? How would you go aboput this? Oh, her ex now husband is a complete loser, makes no money really, they live with her mom in a nasty plc! We were together for a little over a year. Spoke on the phone every day!, saqw eachother a lot.

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    reasonmontague is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Getting Your Ex Back - Philosophy, how I did it and how I'm doing it no

    Ive read this post, this is good stuff. I froze my ex gf out and have been no contact after 6 weeks. Before I did no contact, we had a conversation where we basically go into circles, and an arguments ensues. So I told her that it was best that I move on. This happened and she bombarded with text for the past six weeks. Then last night sends me this email.

    Pat,

    So obviously you saw that I sent you a message. This is my last resort. Read it if you want, don't if you must. I don't know what else to do.

    I feel that I deserve more than what you are doing right now. No, we're never going to get back together but that doens't mean we cannot be adults. Why did you reign me back in, tell me that you were making this move for us, tell me everything I've been wanting to hear and then say goodbye? I have so many unanswered questions and once again, I'd never do this to you. You told me to think and I did... I thought and thought things could be different. Why can't you explain to me why you said that and then changed your mind two days later? We were together for 5 years, lived together for almost all of them, moved across the country together and you don't have the decency to answer me. When we were still in LA i cried to you over and over again, telling you that all I wanted was for you to love me the way I loved you, to give me the love that every person deserves when they are in a relationship, that all I wanted was to be with you forever but that I was exhausted of putting myself out there and hoping things would change. I always hoped they would change, time and time again. I guess hashing all of that doesn't matter at this point because what's done is done and although I don't miss you like my ex, I miss you as a friend. Or I miss what I thought I knew of you as a friend. But I guess I shouldn't be surprised. It's always about Pat, and that's why I left, why I walked away after 5 years of putting my heart and soul into something.

    I guess at this point I have to turn my back on you as you've done to me. I just don't know why you did. What did I do to deserve that? To be cut out of your life completely, forever, because you've made it impossible for us to ever be in eachothers lives again. I hope you understand that. I hope you truly know what you are doing and the grave that you have dug.

    I wish things had been different Pat and I wish that I could run into you and have a smile on my face and give you a hug. It sucks, because when the day comes and I do see you, I'll look at you like the stranger you've always been. The stranger that I'm just realizing I spent the past five years with. The man I thought I knew, that never really was. I guess over the past few weeks I've realized that I stayed so long because I made up who I thought you were in my head and I was hoping you could be him.

    Goodbye, Pat."

    I do want to get her back but Im in weird spot becuse I dont want to go against my word and this girl will say anything to manipulate. Any idea on where to go from here? Let me know.


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