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    Default Ex has a new BF 3 weeks later?

    Ive been doing NC for 3 weeks, and not a budge. After a fun bachelor party this weekend my sister tells me if I hear the news.

    I check facebook and see that my ex is in a relationship after only 3 weeks, that seems a little fast though don't you think? Do women tend to have fiery rebounds that blow up in their face? I don't have much experience with this so I am just curious.

    I am not really that upset. I think my sister sent her some nasty messages making her really upset though. I am not sure what was said.

    Should I just delete her while im at it? Maybe we can fix things one day, but this put a bump in the road. Haha!

    This is strange too since after 2.5 years we had no official status on facebook, but now all of a sudden everyone must know! Silly girl.

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    Default Re: Ex has a new BF 3 weeks later?

    Did u split with her? If so this cold just be a rebound and has been posted on fb to get to you. If she split with you and you want her back then no contact is still your best option, don't let her see that it gets to you, and go out and start seeing other women. It will be hard at first but it gets easier.....

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    Default Re: Ex has a new BF 3 weeks later?

    agree with linking, kepp with NC and go out. work on yourself, be better person, go to gym and meet womens ... And it is not strange that girls go in another relationship very quick after break up. I had same situation few months ago, after 2 years she broke up with me and go to another man very quick, and slept with him also after week of relationship. Whad did i do? i just listen guys from here, i got control over my life, start dating another womens, and after some time i realize that i dont need her anymore, she is not right for me cause im better than she is!check this link and you will maybe realize what i m talking about :P

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    Default Re: Ex has a new BF 3 weeks later?

    It was a heated argument and she kept starting her car, so I told her if she leaves then its over. Well she did. So I think this counts as her breaking up with me? Unsure!

    It was back and forth fighting and then making up to come back into the same problems. This break is necessary as a minimum for things to work out in the end. Unfortunately I haven't contacted her and told her this is how a feel. I am staying strong though with NC.

    My sister posted that she was disgusted with the FB update lol. I have told her since not to give into her games.

    Either way I have been putting my martial arts training on hold. Now I am in full training mode back at the gym. Its really helping because there is a whole new family there ready to support me!

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    Default Re: Ex has a new BF 3 weeks later?

    Yeah totally drop back into your training, I'm a mixed martial artist myself and training is what keeps me sane :L would you want her back? Or do you want to move on?

    'We have this idea that love is supposed to last forever. But love isn’t like that. It’s a free-flowing energy that comes and goes as it pleases. Sometimes it stays for life, other times it stays for a year, a month, a minute or a second. So don't fear love when it comes because it makes you vulnerable, but don't be surprised when it leaves either. Just be glad you had the chance to experience it whilst it lasted.'

    Found this quote in the game, whenever I was down about breaking up with my ex I would re read it and think about it, I still do it now if I have a tough day. Really helped me

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    Default Re: Ex has a new BF 3 weeks later?

    i m training also MMA, and that keeps me also with clear head :P

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    Default Re: Ex has a new BF 3 weeks later?

    Right now I am upset. I don't really know if I want her back because we argued a lot and we might be too different to be together.. I want to clear the air and see what we can do after some healing time.

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    Default Re: Ex has a new BF 3 weeks later?

    Be strong, i know how u feel, believe me! Bro, she is dating another man, do you think does she cry at this moment? feel sorry for you? c'mon, you have to go out and get some fun. And stop checking her facebook profile, you don't want to see all that crap which will do pain to you

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    Default Re: Ex has a new BF 3 weeks later?

    I agree, stay away from her profile. She's using facebook as a weapon. Take comfort in knowing that she is insecure for doing that and that your going no contact on her is affecting her enough to use the "in a relationship" status to rile you up.

    Even if she is with another guy don't worry about her jumping into a relationship that fast. If I were him I'd be like "wtf, we're in a relationship already?!!". Relationships that start that fast after a break-up are destined for failure anyways.

    Just do your thing and focus on healing and moving on with your life without having to use another person like she is. When you're ready you'll be able to start an amazing, healthy relationship with another person--unlike your ex who can't be alone for 5 minutes. The best revenge is happiness.
    “The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of the engagement; you ought not to be thinking of whether it ends in victory or defeat. Let nature take its course, and your tools will strike at the right moment.” -Bruce Lee

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    Default Re: Ex has a new BF 3 weeks later?

    Yes, just heal yourself and move on. Don't use another women just to heal your emotional state, it going to be failure. Date another womens, enjou in life, be happy and everything gonna be fine


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