Alright, here we go. Me and this girl have been talking/dating for a month. I reconnected with her at a club, but I had known her since high school. I'm 24 and she is 25. I see her at the club and get her number as I'm leaving. Immediately we have good chemistry. I have her laughing and she's engaged through text. I probably over texted (I'm honestly new to this). A week goes by and get invited to her house, and chill on her bed. . . . . . .Just chilled (my 1st mistake). . . . . , another week goes by and we are in the same situation, just chillin on her bed. She starts talking about how she can't wait to meet my mom and what not and I'm fine with that honestly . . .As I was leaving we hugged and kissed. That night I text her and we end up in a conversation about how we feel and how we are both looking forward to what the future holds (my 2nd mistake). After this, my texts became very mundane and lacked any emotional stimuli (3rd mistake).
That weekend I go to a football game and to a club afterwards. She's there with her friends ( I knew she was as I was meeting her there). We don't just dance with each other but other people as well. She seemed cool with it. Her friend danced with me and she danced with my friend as well. This is where she started becoming distant. Looking back, I know exactly what I did. I failed to capitalize on MULTIPLE opportunities to advance our relationship sexually. She would text/call me when she was in the bathtub, and catch me when I was getting out the shower and make suggestive texts, but I didn't capitalize on em. I was so busy trying to be "mr. nice guy" that I missed these blatantly obvious opportunities. I know the mistakes I made looking back on this situation.
I Asked her a question 3 days ago and have had no reply. I don't HAVE to have this girl back, but I still feel for her and I do want to at least try as I'm pretty sure she still feels something for me. Should I wait a while to text her and kind of start over or try to send her a short text to stir her emotions a little and get her thinking of me again (one that doesn't require an answer)? I'm open to any and all ideas.