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    Default ex broke nc after months now disapeared

    hey well ive came along way since joining these boards. My first posts make me cringe lol. But anyway i hadnt heard much form my ex for months bar a text after i deleted her off facebook to really crack on about 2 months ago (best thing i ever did). Ive gotten new hobies been on a lads holiday, been on city breaks with the lads, all sorts really.

    Ive been dating 3 chicks at the same time its been increible. All untill last monday i get a text from an number that isnt saved on my phonme booked straight away i know who it is becuase only shes knows about this its from our holiday to america. (using memories as a Sh1t Test i think)

    Her: *insert memorie*
    Me: (2 hours later) Ya what?
    Her: Sorry i was just thinking about it and started to laugh i couldnt resist. Surely you havnt forgotten, say it in an american accent
    (i *fell asleep* and replied the next day)
    Me: Oh yer lol. Good times random LOL.
    Her: i know haha it was so funny how have you been?
    Me:good thank you
    her: good whens your graduation?

    (we went ot the same uni so i think shes trying to work out fi our graduation was on the same day. LUckily it isnt!)

    It went on like this all day her asking questions and me taking various tiomes to reply sokmeimtes afew minutes sometimes afeww hours sometimes teh next day. I never once asked her anything.

    she told me to watch a tv show my reply :ahhh i see sorry im going out tonight so wont have time to watch....might skyplus it if your lucky

    Her reply: oh haha have fun *insert name*

    I replied teh next days : "just got my new car today like a kid at xmas "

    Havnt heard anything since! my gut feeling is telling me to wait untill/if she texts again. Duno if shes jsut trying to head furkkkkk me or what. She moved away 6 weeks ago and havnt spoke to her for 2 months. Ive heard from mutual freinds that moving away wasnt what she "hoped" it would be.

    Any light on this for me always good to have others input!

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    Default Re: ex broke nc after months now disapeared

    Yea just wait

    She Probably Had a low moment and wanted attention / validation which she got from your responses (just acknowledgement). You're dating other girls now, if you have any interest in her let her come to you. Nice work on your progress, don't lose it and push too hard. I really wouldn't worry about her, exes coming back in can set your progress back by leaps and bounds, so don't falter
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    Default Re: ex broke nc after months now disapeared

    Ahhh I see its always good to have other perspective. Pap! I didn't think I would be validating her. If she texts again ignore or take awhile to reply keep being blunt and then sometimes do some pulling?

    Any other advice anyone? X

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    Default Re: ex broke nc after months now disapeared

    Striker, I get the feeling that she is just trying to keep you in orbit man. It's up to you whether you want to be there or not. She'll probably try to fark with your head a few more times by bringing up past memories with random texts and such. I would keep doing what your doing. You're moving on with your life and you're not sitting around waiting for her to come back. I would suspect that she will get really interested when you get another girlfriend. Be ready for that.
    “The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of the engagement; you ought not to be thinking of whether it ends in victory or defeat. Let nature take its course, and your tools will strike at the right moment.” -Bruce Lee

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    Default Re: ex broke nc after months now disapeared

    Quote Originally Posted by liukang75 View Post
    Striker, I get the feeling that she is just trying to keep you in orbit man. It's up to you whether you want to be there or not. She'll probably try to fark with your head a few more times by bringing up past memories with random texts and such. I would keep doing what your doing. You're moving on with your life and you're not sitting around waiting for her to come back. I would suspect that she will get really interested when you get another girlfriend. Be ready for that.
    I thought that too good to have others perspective on it! She's coming home next week for abit heard it from a mutual freind. If she does text what would you advise I do I certainly do not want to be an orbiter! Not at all!!!!!

    Striker x


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