Re: Broke nc, ADVICE on next step (reconnecting)
I highly doubt that sending that kind of a text would improve things. Also, if she hasn't jumped at the opportunity to have lunch with you after not seeing you for awhile then that's a bad sign. Not to mention you followed up with her to "confirm" your meet up.
She's the type that likes to be chased? Well most women do. That's why it's our job to get her to chase us. The chasing can vary woman to woman, but I believe that most women can be influenced to chase to some degree.
Try to keep your focus on yourself and not necessarily trying to figure out what you think she needs. I know it's helpful, but detrimental if you put too much focus on what you need to do to get her back. So try to find that balance.
Don't be nice. Be an asshole. You have to show her you really don't give a fuck anymore. That includes not worrying about what you say upsets her. Why? Because it will be impossible for her to think you are trying to impress her and win her back.
Being nice and funny can get a woman to smell that a mile away. It gives her the feeling you're trying to get back in her life and is only confirmed when you set a meet date prematurely.
Actually...you haven't said much about why she broke up with you. Or the dynamics of the relationship. Please do tell
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."