I've been missing my ex recently even though I've got dates set up with other women. Some are considerably more attractive than my ex too.
Anyway, without posting a huge thread I'll just say that we were together for a year. I beta backslid the last month and drove her away and she broke up with me. Failed too many conrgruency tests I guess. I'm pretty sure another guy was/is involved too.
When she met up with me and told me it's officially over I went beta and wanted her back and told her how much I love her, etc etc. I then went no contact and a week later she called me up asking about my dating profile, I went beta again and broke down and deleted my profile telling her I love her and want to be with her. Yea, I know I failed. So I go no contact again and about 10 days later she calls and ignored her, she then texts me with a really long winded text calling me a player and that I never cared for her and she is going to see other people. She said she will never call me again. So I call her and I don't get emotional at all this time, I just tell her I never cheated on her and I'm not a player and goodbye, I'll never forget you. (Was this total beta mode here? I said it in a cool and calm tone.)
Anyway it's been a month since I last called her, my question is, if she re-initiates and I act alpha, do I have a shot at re-attracting her?