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    Muldoon is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Beta Backsliding

    I've been missing my ex recently even though I've got dates set up with other women. Some are considerably more attractive than my ex too.

    Anyway, without posting a huge thread I'll just say that we were together for a year. I beta backslid the last month and drove her away and she broke up with me. Failed too many conrgruency tests I guess. I'm pretty sure another guy was/is involved too.

    When she met up with me and told me it's officially over I went beta and wanted her back and told her how much I love her, etc etc. I then went no contact and a week later she called me up asking about my dating profile, I went beta again and broke down and deleted my profile telling her I love her and want to be with her. Yea, I know I failed. So I go no contact again and about 10 days later she calls and ignored her, she then texts me with a really long winded text calling me a player and that I never cared for her and she is going to see other people. She said she will never call me again. So I call her and I don't get emotional at all this time, I just tell her I never cheated on her and I'm not a player and goodbye, I'll never forget you. (Was this total beta mode here? I said it in a cool and calm tone.)

    Anyway it's been a month since I last called her, my question is, if she re-initiates and I act alpha, do I have a shot at re-attracting her?

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    pua_wannabe is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Beta Backsliding

    I believe as long as you stay alpha the chance will always exist! I would keep dating other women, let her come to you and stop with the beta!!! Atleast the last contact you two had went well on your part anyways. But for now keep the no contact rule in effect!

    In my opinion the reason why you were dumped was most likely because you lost sight of who you are as a boyfriend, as a lover and lastly as man. Alpha males never lose sight who they truly are. Work on yourself, learn about yourself! I say this because if you were to get back together with her would you go back to being who you were or would be someone new?
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

    “The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it.”
    ― Flannery O'Connor


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