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    Default Bumping into ex at a party - what to talk about

    Well the time has come. As mentioned last week my ex started texting me out of the blue about holiday memories and stuff. Anyway I know this means jack but I was out last weekend and a close friend of hers approached me, to inform me that my ex was returning home for a week and that I shouldn't ignore her and that I need to talk to her. I asked why and she said the same again. I mentioned that she randomly text me and her friend just smiled. She then proceeded to say " bet your loving single life get your leg over who ever you want" at that I laughed and changed the subject. Anyway before she left she told me she would be at a mutual party and that I must not ignore her, say hello and talk to her. Very confusing.

    Anyway I can't even begin to speculate what that convo meant but I do know one thing my ex will be there lol. If I could avoid the party I would but that is a no no. Her friend also commented on my body saying it was bigger and toned.( added 20 pounds of muscle and lost 12pound of fat since we broke up 6 months ago ).

    My main question how do I proceed here. I know I am not going to talk to her. Don't get me wrong I will wave or say hi but I won't initiate a full on convo.

    Any tips on what I should say and what I definitley shouldn't say.

    I find I can only advise other people but I can never give advice to myself.

    All help will be appreciated!

    Striker x

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    Default Re: Bumping into ex

    It depends on what you're going for.
    If your aim is to eventually get her back, then you can "game" her just like any other girl you meet for the first time.

    If you're not interested in getting back with her, then just be polite & say hello... maybe a couple minutes of small talk & then roll out.

    The main factor is that YOU are in complete control of the situation now.


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    Default Re: Bumping into ex at a party - what to talk about

    Thanks man ill give it a go. Anything I shouldn't do?

    Striker

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    Default Re: Bumping into ex at a party - what to talk about

    Don't express any neediness or over-eagerness.

    You CAN let her know you're genuinely glad to see her, but don't get all mushy-gushy.

    Be polite, friendly & confident.... and don't give her too much "positive body language".
    Make sure you mix in some negative, by turning away & keeping her at one side or the other. Also; occasionally work in the flirty touching & other attraction techniques.

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    Default Re: Bumping into ex at a party - what to talk about

    Thanks man seems to be sound advice! see what happens she may be totally cold and negative! will have to see. x


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