Well the time has come. As mentioned last week my ex started texting me out of the blue about holiday memories and stuff. Anyway I know this means jack but I was out last weekend and a close friend of hers approached me, to inform me that my ex was returning home for a week and that I shouldn't ignore her and that I need to talk to her. I asked why and she said the same again. I mentioned that she randomly text me and her friend just smiled. She then proceeded to say " bet your loving single life get your leg over who ever you want" at that I laughed and changed the subject. Anyway before she left she told me she would be at a mutual party and that I must not ignore her, say hello and talk to her. Very confusing.
Anyway I can't even begin to speculate what that convo meant but I do know one thing my ex will be there lol. If I could avoid the party I would but that is a no no. Her friend also commented on my body saying it was bigger and toned.( added 20 pounds of muscle and lost 12pound of fat since we broke up 6 months ago ).
My main question how do I proceed here. I know I am not going to talk to her. Don't get me wrong I will wave or say hi but I won't initiate a full on convo.
Any tips on what I should say and what I definitley shouldn't say.
I find I can only advise other people but I can never give advice to myself.
All help will be appreciated!