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    Default Re: Ex dumped me for another guy

    And the thing is, you shouldn't do the whole try to make her regret it thing. Your better than thator at least I'm assuming Haha and honestly if you go nc for a while it will happen naturally, and if it doesn't, who cares cuz your already moved on and by then you wont want her back anyways
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    Default Re: Ex dumped me for another guy

    move on and keep her as a fark buddy

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    Default Re: Ex dumped me for another guy

    If we allow people to do things and then say opps I'm sorry I made a mistake and all is just forgiven there is no lesson learned for her or you...

    Right now you will find out something about the man you are... Definitely NC should be applied so she will learn a lesson as well if she is truly sorry for her actions.

    A breakup hurts but it is definitely motivation and the future is ALWAYS bright with possibilities..

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    Default Re: Ex dumped me for another guy

    NC is definitely the way to go, completely agree. And I know "moving on" is for the better. But I wouldn't be posting in the "How to Get Your Ex Back" section of this site if that's ultimately not what I wanted...and it is. But that's not to say I'm not making the effort. Signed up at a local gym here the other day, and switched up my diet. Going out with friends, and even a girl next weekend. So I'm definitely keeping my plate full, which is helping me keep my mind off of the situation, at least to a certain degree.

    So say I stick with no contact, which I am doing. Should I continue to wait a few months? Obviously people don't change easily, let alone in just one month. How long is long enough before contacting her would do me any good?

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    Default Re: Ex dumped me for another guy

    Give it a shot when things aren't woodsman and just try to not let your heart get in the way of your head when you do finally talkto her. There isn't a set amount of time, I like to do it early before they have completely moved on Maynes month, but thats just me.
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    Default Re: Ex dumped me for another guy

    When things aren't so fresh* sorry wouldn't let me edit for some reason
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: Ex dumped me for another guy

    If you don't have any expectations there can be no dissapointment... Move forward with that intent and stay focused on what you are trying to accomplish. Last thing you should be worried about is when YOU are going to contact her.

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    Default Re: Ex dumped me for another guy

    Thanks for the advice guys, much appreciated. I'm just going to keep doing what I'm doing, and check back here in a month, or when my position changes.

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    Default Re: Ex dumped me for another guy

    Update: broke NC to check on her after she'd gotten into a car accident. Nothing too serious, just a broken wrist.

    I was sure to keep it short and sweet, though. Only asked if she was alright, and let her talk her way through what had happened. Told her I had to run out for errands, and she thanked me for checking up and said "I appreciate it. I really do," to which I casually replied it was no big deal and left the convo.

    It's been almost 2 weeks since the break-up, and I've taken up a martial art in addition to my weight-training. So it's been getting progressively easier to keep my mind off her. The date with the other girl didn't pan out like I'd hoped, but she wasn't really my type anyway. I was still sure to take a picture of the two of us and put it on fb though.

    I'm curious, even though I've broken NC if it will hurt my chances when I get back home...? I have definitely been feeling better since the day of the break-up, but I still catch myself thinking about her, checking her profile, etc. It's probably best to just let her stew in her own guilt for a while, but I think I'll be okay to add her back on fb soon, if for no other reason than to show I'm not really all that bothered anymore. Just hide her posts from my news feed or something. Thoughts?

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    Default Re: Ex dumped me for another guy

    I think you are letting her occupy too much space in your mind... It's ok to think about her, But if you are constantly refering back to her and what you had with her thats to much...

    You have to accept the situation for what it is... The best way to get over her is bring some new women into your life... Go on-line and get on every Free dating site you can and try to make it a point to meet women where ever you go.


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