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    Default Ex dumped me for another guy

    Recently, my girlfriend of 8 months dumped me for some guy she works with.

    I'm currently studying abroad, and will be graduating next semester when I come back home. Before I left, we discussed the idea of an LDR and she seemed to be cool with it on the condition we leave things open.

    Unfortunately, this turned out to not be the case. About a month after I left, she called me and said she had "fallen out of love" with me and is no longer interested in dating.
    A few of her friends told me she's been farking this guy at work ever since I left the country.

    Sure enough, when I confronted her she admitted to it. Instead of replying, I started NC and a few days later she messaged me, apologizing and asking for forgiveness. But also adding that she still doesn't have romantic feelings for me anymore.

    I still have yet to reply to her, as the break-up is still fresh and I'm sure I would say things I'd regret if I were to reply now. She still wants to be friends, so it's obvious she needs me in her life despite having this new guy around. What do you guys think, should I just keep NC and go out and have some fun?

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    Default Re: Ex dumped me for another guy

    Just move on bud. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Make her regret it and don't ever let her think for one moment your not the happiest guy in the world.

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    Default Re: Ex dumped me for another guy

    Depends on what you want from her. I wont tell you what to do, but I can tell you how to get what you wannt
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: Ex dumped me for another guy

    To be honest, I'm not too sure what I want. She's by far the best girlfriend I've had, but I have a pretty checkered past when it comes to relationships.

    For now, I just want her to feel regret. When she was breaking up with me, she had the emotional intensity of someone ordering a pizza. Maybe when I return, I'll feel like patching things up. But until then, I want her to regret her poor decision.

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    Default Re: Ex dumped me for another guy

    Sometimes getting "dumped" turns out to be a blessing in disguise!

    You can look back at the things you might need to work & improve on to become a better man & the best version of YOU that you can be.

    Also- it allows you to work on your skills by meeting other women, and eventually you just might run into that girl who turns out to be "THE ONE".

    I say this from experience because, that's exactly what happened to me.

    It took me a while to discover the "No Contact" technique/rule... but after I did & implemented it, I realized that I was honestly better off being out of that relationship.

    It's definitely easier to accept that now, than it was at first... but I totally recommend getting out & expanding your social circle, as well as your options.



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    Default Re: Ex dumped me for another guy

    My ex dumped me for the exact same reason mate, she said she 'loved me but wasn't in love with me anymore' this happened whilst I was away for the summer. So I got back into the game and am having more success and more fun than I ever have before so just forget about her, go out and have fun

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Ex dumped me for another guy

    Yeah, that's my plan at this point. Just have as much fun as possible and make sure she knows it.

    I'm actually in Asia studying abroad, which is too bad since I don't really have a thing for Asian women. Fortunately there's plenty of attractive looking European women here as well.

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    Default Re: Ex dumped me for another guy

    In my past i've heard that line also "I love you but i'm not in love with you" and also "It's not working" which is womanese for i've lost respect for you and therefore attraction.

    Go NC mate, it's hard we all know but stick with it and you will feel better much faster, go out have fun!

    Biggest revenge if thats what you want is too be genuinely happy and not let it show she bothers you, so if she contacts you keep it very short and polite

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    Default Re: Ex dumped me for another guy

    Yeah, get that line a lot, take it however you will, butf I take it as, I don't love youanymore. Just take it and move on, cut your losses and turn around and make a profit
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    Default Re: Ex dumped me for another guy

    The best thing you can do right now is move on because it seems like she may have had it planned. A month for her to fall out of love or whatever and some guy comes along and does a boyfriend destroyer on you. If she's that easy to persuade then you are better off without her, and by you seeing other women and being happy will be enough to really send her in orbit. It a biig world with lots of women so do your thing.


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