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    dominic_ghad is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default nc help. to start dating my ex

    Hi guys.
    I know most of the get your ex back situations are all the same even if we feel they are unique. So I'll be brief.
    I gamed a girl (virgin) and treated it right and we only actually slept (sex) with each other after 5 months. I'm 25 so this wasn't because I had no balls but wanted to show I didn't care just about sex and respected her.
    Long story short, we dated for a year and a half. I was her first bf and she was very clingy, some of it was becsuse I have a lot of female friends and some because she's just clingy. Sometimes it got scary clingy. Eventually it pushed me away.
    We took a break but still kept on seeing each other and she kept on buying gifts etc and I wasn't an arsehole about it. I forced myself to be there for her sometimes.
    Then out of the blue one night her sister set her up with her boyfriends (the sisters boyfriends) cousin.
    They slept together. I didn't even know I'd lost her. But I acted cool about it. Me and her slept together again I think because we went out and had a good time and she said she wanted to sleep with me but didn't want to cheat on the new guy...who she'd only been seeing for..a week? So yea..crazy?
    Now we're in nc because she says she knows we can just be friends.
    So yea. I want to date her and move forward, that's a given.
    Question is, what do I do about this nc, as we both inititated it, but she is the one who is nc'ing me because she doesn't want to cheat on this guy.
    If you read this far, well done haha thanks, Dominic

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    urbanhero is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: nc help. to start dating my ex

    I think you need to take control of the situation to be honest. Regardless of the fact your friends and she is seeing someone else. You need to show her you are better and more than than the guy she is currently with, without telling her, she needs to see it for herself. Go out txt some girls, post some pictures of you with them on facebook.

    At the moment she is in control. Plus you dont want her as a friend you want her as a girlfriend, big difference. Dont act like a friend, you dont owe her anything, make her work for your attention.

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    Default Re: nc help. to start dating my ex

    Alrght Bro, weve both got a little bit different advice here so you can pick your favorite, but before isay anything, I've gotta ask, are you sure you want this girl back? She cheated on him what makes you think she wont cheat on you? And not t OK the task at hand.hmmmmi actually think that its a bad idea to do the whole date around thing,not saying urban hero is wrong but that isn't how I would handle it,mainly because of how clingy she was before. You don't wan her to turn that ontothe new guy, you want to dhv so she comes back to you, that parts easy. Yousaid you had a lot of female friends, great, hang out with them, maybe include her when you do so she can see what 67 actually do when you hang put with them so she will feel bad Abby having been clingyin the first place, and she wont be the second time around
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever


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