Re: How do I properly implement this freeze out?
If you want a relationship with her then I would continue to let her run back to you and just be a little more laid back about the whole situation. I realize you want more but you can't force it to happen and giving her ultimatums will only push her away. Maybe the ex is a bigger factor then you think. It sounds to me that she might not be letting you escalate further because she's still sexually or emotionally involved with her ex-boyfriend. Could be she's getting sex from him but no emotional support so you get the shit end of the deal. Now,as long as your getting some play you're not in the friendzone. How far is she letting you go is the question? If you're not getting any play whatsoever then back to the Freeze-Out and then pop up again like nothings wrong. Push and pull, push and pull.
“The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of the engagement; you ought not to be thinking of whether it ends in victory or defeat. Let nature take its course, and your tools will strike at the right moment.” -Bruce Lee