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    Prairie is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default A FB message from my ex GF. Respond or not to respond?

    We've been out of touch since May, after she'd cancelled a date. I never got around to deleting her from my fb frienlist and one day in August I posted her let's go to a jazz festival that very night for music and drinks. She agreed at first (not too eagerly), only to "change her mind" later under the pretext that her old aged mother needed her as a driver to take her to some anniversary party. That sounded glaringly lame so I sent a rude text via cell to the effect that if so, she shouldn't have led me on and fukked with me that way, adding the Latin word DIXI as a parting shot. Since then, complete radio silence between us. Late last night though, I receive a Facebook message from her, saying if she could come over to where I work for some after-hours drinks (and presumably, sex).

    As a side note, for all that bitchiness and flaking tendences, she's basically fun, keen witted and good in bed. I'm still undecided as to how to react, if at all. Advice will be much appreciated.

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    Default Re: A FB message from my ex GF. Respond or not to respond?

    How did you and your ex end? How long were you together and who broke it off?

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    Prairie is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: A FB message from my ex GF. Respond or not to respond?

    Quote Originally Posted by Shortman View Post
    How did you and your ex end? How long were you together and who broke it off?
    Together for 8+ months. I simply broke it off and started seeing another woman after she stood me up. When I made a mistake of arranging another date at a jazz gig and must have made another mistake of texting some rude remark crowned off with a "dixi" (see above)

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    Default Re: A FB message from my ex GF. Respond or not to respond?

    Prairie,

    Judging by your writing you seem to be quite the intelligent man. I don't see how any of us can help you besides provoking your thoughts. What do you want? What are you searching for? What purpose does this girl serve?

    -Cody
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    Default Re: A FB message from my ex GF. Respond or not to respond?

    Quote Originally Posted by Cody View Post
    Prairie,

    Judging by your writing you seem to be quite the intelligent man. I don't see how any of us can help you besides provoking your thoughts. What do you want? What are you searching for? What purpose does this girl serve?

    -Cody
    My reaction? Silence? Arranging a meeting? or finally a message back? If the latter, in what vein? In truth I still like that woman, and everyone that came my way thereafter were a far cry.

    PS My problem, I agree but-


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