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    Default Oh boy did I mess up

    Well OMG my god. I guess I seriously believe anything is possible if i'm posting here. Basically long story short ex gf broke up with me was being really bitchy horrible like seriously a complete farking bitch. So I changed her email and facebook passwords and everytime she creates an account i just change the password. Police called me telling me to stop contacting her changing passwords etc. Her parents and all her friends hate me, her dad called me up arguing with me and giving his not needed input (was like i was arguing with her they both argue exactly the same). How do I get back with her LOL. Seriously think ive lost the farking plot. I know giving her accounts back would be a good start so was thinking would do it in voicemail. Everytime i try to call her she ignores me and skype her etc. She also hasnt blocked my number yet.

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    Default Re: Oh boy did I mess up

    ... uh no offense but you shuldnt of done any of that. i dont respect what you did sorry i dont think i can help you
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: Oh boy did I mess up

    Not saying I haven't been an arse. Like seriously had a lot of stuff going on and she couldnt have picked a worse time to end it. I know I did wrong not saying I don't i just wanna try and get in the friend zone at least.

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    Default Re: Oh boy did I mess up

    Wait.... what? - I'm sorry, Pardon?

    Here are my thoughts while reading this...

    Quote Originally Posted by No Touch View Post
    Well OMG my god. I guess I seriously believe anything is possible if i'm posting here.

    ...no offense intended?...

    Basically long story short ex gf broke up with me was being really bitchy horrible like seriously a complete farking bitch.

    ...good for you man! Kick that b1tch to the curb, don't waste your time on girls who don't treat you right!...

    So I changed her email and facebook passwords and everytime she creates an account i just change the password.

    ...aaaaaaare you having a crazy contest with a girl who owns too many cats?....

    Police called me telling me to stop contacting her changing passwords etc. Her parents and all her friends hate me, her dad called me up

    ...please tell me this is not a 'get the ex back' post...


    arguing with me and giving his not needed input (was like i was arguing with her they both argue exactly the same). How do I get back with her LOL.

    ...Srsly?...

    Seriously

    ...fuq.

    think ive lost the farking plot. I know giving her accounts back would be a good start so was thinking would do it in voicemail. Everytime i try to call her she ignores me and skype her etc. She also hasnt blocked my number yet.

    NT

    Here's my thoughts: get yourself stable, then move on.
    It sounds like you need to work on what we call "Inner game" - fancy word for 'becoming comfortable with yourself regardless of external forces', external forces being women, money, health, anything. Be comfortable with who and what you are, and you will feel less of a NEED to get back with her.
    Also move on. Unless she was a real keeper and the break up was due to like moving house or something (which your case is neither) the idea of getting back with your ex is a characteristic of a thing we call a "poverty Mindset" - which means you assume that there are a limited number of girls who are "right" for you, (the opposite is an "abundance mindset" - the idea that if it doesn't work out with one girl you can and will find another pretty soon).
    It didn't work out for a reason. Whatever that reason might have been. She's not your only option. She's not your best option. She's not, it seems, even an option at this point anymore.
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: Oh boy did I mess up

    When the police get involved it's definitely done and over with. It's time to let go man! You've now catapulted yourself into stalker status. Stop everything that you're doing to get this girl back and go see a therapist. I'm not saying this to you to be mean--I think you really need help and there is nothing wrong with that. Nobody on this planet is perfect. Get some help man!
    “The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of the engagement; you ought not to be thinking of whether it ends in victory or defeat. Let nature take its course, and your tools will strike at the right moment.” -Bruce Lee


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