first I'll reply to 'hyp':
the reason why she broke up with me was apparantly because she doesn't love me anymore (or at least she says so).
She called me when she broke up and first said that it's because of several reasons: we don't have enough things in common, i'm not interested enough in their cultural things (especially folkdance is very important for them (Hungarians) and I don't like it the least bit), she's afraid I'll become like my dad later and we'll have a boring life.
After she broke up with me we still talked on msn daily for a week, where I made some mistakes like trying to convince her to give me another chance, that I'll change (which I really will if she gives me the chance and helps me,... And during one of those conversations she said that besides the other reasons, she doesn't love me anymore and doesn't want to work on the relationship anymore. (she had been trying for a few months on her own to fix it, and she admitted that this was the biggest mistake that she could make, this is why I believe is still have a chance).
What I really have to make clear is that she certainly isn't a girl who plays games, she's always honest (really).
I hope this is clear for you and also others :-)
If anyone can tell me if they can make some conclusions from this thing, then please let me know...