I've been reading a ton of PUA material including these threads while not contacting my ex for two months now, absolutely no communication. Not a text, telegraph, smoke signal, nothing. Our last communication was a dramatic text(from her) followed by phone conversation about her telling me she never wants to see me again EVER and she is moving to New York(insert drama). I just stayed calm and said I'll always remember you. Her not contacting me at all tells me that she is for sure seeing someone else and I was super jealous when I first realized this. Now I just don't care.
It seems the recurring theme is that you should get in touch with your ex after you get over her. I can honestly say that I am over her now. I looked at her FB profile and she is still single but looks like she is having lots of fun. I felt totally detached. More importantly, I've started going to school again with a subject I am totally passionate about and I feel like I have found a number 1 priority in my life, a purpose to which all women are now secondary.
I think she won't contact me unless she gets dumped by this new guy because she has transferred all of her emotional support from me to him.
How would I even contact her without it looking like I want her back?