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    Default Re: Dumped without warning. How can I get her back?

    UPDATE:

    It's about 2 weeks since the breakup.

    Been out and about, with friends, made a trip out of town over the weekend. I have been sharing all of this stuff on Facebook and Instagram so she can see it all.

    Mutual friends have invited her to a couple of things, but she has been bailing. Guessing that she doesn't want to see me and knows I will be in attendance.

    She hasn't made any attempts to be in contact, but she is sharing updates about stuff she's doing on Facebook.

    Shall I just keep up the sharing of all the fun I'm having? How long do you wait to break no contact? A month? She's the kind of girl who likes to be chased, so I don't believe she will break it herself.

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    Default Re: Dumped without warning. How can I get her back?

    I am trying to get a ex back.. we had a fall out so yea when i stopped talking to her.. i went for like i think it was 2 months I am not a allstar but I met up with her this weekend and we sealed the deal in the bedroom.. so the longer you stay out i think the better i know 2 months sounds like a long time but its not if you are working and stuff. also to be honest it sounds like your having more of a fun time trying to impress her then when you were with her.

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    Default Re: Dumped without warning. How can I get her back?

    If it seems that I'm having a lot more fun then that's great, it must appear that way to her too.

    Unfortunately I'm actually pretty miserable and most of my smiles are just good acting.

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    Default Re: Dumped without warning. How can I get her back?

    look, she won't like you untill you have turned the tables on her.you need to be the one who's uninterested in her with her chasing after you. you need to create all the attraction in her and then friendzone her. once you do that just play hard to get and withhold ioi's from her. get her to hang out with you and keep her in your friendzone. eventualy once you have created enough attraction in her,you just need to give her an "opportunity" to seduce you. when that time comes all you need to do is Isolate her and she will do the rest if you've laid the groundwork (lots of attraction and sexual Tension)

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    Default Re: Dumped without warning. How can I get her back?

    Yea I agree with the above post do everything he said. Girls friendzone guys all the time... its our turn to friendzone them

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    Default Re: Dumped without warning. How can I get her back?

    I think you guys are a bit confused by the way I've worded things.

    I'm not chasing her. I haven't contacted her at all since the breakup, as far as she is aware I am just out living my life having fun. I am only posting things here because I am looking for advice.

    So, with that in mind, I have a couple more pieces of information.

    I've just found a pair of her jeans, I'm pretty sure she has a shirt of mine at hers as well, as I can't find it anywhere and the last time I wore it was the weekend before the breakup.

    Gotta be some way to use these things productively?

    Also, her Facebook timeline cover photo is still a photo of me, her and one of our friends when we all attended an event earlier this year. Maybe I'm reading too much into it, but it seems weird to keep up a cover picture with your ex in it?

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    Default Re: Dumped without warning. How can I get her back?

    in my post before this one i gave you the strategy for when you "break the silence" if you want her back. taking the jeans back to her would be a good way to "break the silence" if you want to. she may have the photo because she still likes you or maybe just to have a profile picture with a good looking guy in it, its hard to tell if its an ioi or not. but always assume the best, maybe she misses you and wants you back. maybe she just likes that picture or uses it to demonstrate pre-selection (yes girls often try to show other girls that they are better than each other by showing off their men) do whatever you feel is right for the circumstance. you know alot more about her than we do

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    Default Re: Dumped without warning. How can I get her back?

    The picture is just the cover photo, it also features a mutual friend (the 3 of us went together). Her profile picture is one I took of her from the same event, it's just her.

    These pics have been there since we attended. When she broke up with her last boyfriend she changed the cover photo straight away, but that was one which featured them as a couple without any third parties.

    In the case of breaking the silence with the jeans (obviously not immediately), what is the best way to go about this?

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    Default Re: Dumped without warning. How can I get her back?

    just act friendly and text her something like "so i was cleaning my room yesterday and i found a pair of jeans that were a bit too tight to be mine, if you want them back just stop by my place tommaro " you are making a big deal out of nothing! just do it

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    Default Re: Dumped without warning. How can I get her back?

    It's been 3 weeks of no contact now.

    At the weekend some friends invited me out in her town, got lucky, she wasn't around but I made sure to share it on Facebook so she knows I'm not afraid of running into her.

    I've unblocked her on Facebook chat, so that she can now see when I am online. Her cover photo still features me (and our mutual friend), which I am finding a bit weird.

    Thinking about breaking NC to let her know about the jeans of hers I found at the end of the month, would be just over 4 weeks by then. Opinions?


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