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    Default Re: Dumped without warning. How can I get her back?

    I would wait the extra week to make it a month but that is just me

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    Default Re: Dumped without warning. How can I get her back?

    Yeah, I am definitely not going to contact her before it's been within a month. I'm just curious of that's long enough a woman to get over her negative feelings?

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    Default Re: Dumped without warning. How can I get her back?

    the duration depends on how good of a time she had when she's with you. The bond you have as well as how bad the breakup was. If it was bad, she might need more time to "heal".

    ALso, if you have acted AFC during any point during the breakup, u yourself might need more time to show her that you have "changed" for the better

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    Default Re: Dumped without warning. How can I get her back?

    UPDATE:

    I'm stil slightly tipsy from being out, please excuse typos.

    Went out with frirends, to a bar and club, she was there.

    She ignored me the entire time.

    I had a good time dancing with and enjoying myself with the girls from our group, she seemed visiibly annoyed and sat in the corner texting.

    Honestly I didn't enjoy myself at all and I feel like shit. I wish she'd spoken to me and I'm wondering why she didn't?

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    Default Re: Dumped without warning. How can I get her back?

    she didn't talk to you because she was jealous and she probably figured it would be awekward and uncomfortable to make convorsation with you. don't worry i think its working on her and feeling like sh!t is just a part of "getting over her" once you figure out that you don't need her, she will realize how lost she is without you.

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    Default Re: Dumped without warning. How can I get her back?

    I'm glad that you think it's working, I'll keep it up.

    Just some more things to add on that I forgot to mention last night. If you remember in the first post I spoke about our mutual friend Steven. He was there last night and she used him as a way to stay away from the group when he arrived. He's hopelessly obsessed with her and it's starting to piss me off to be honest. I know she won't ever do anything with him so I'm keeping my mouth shut though.

    Anyway, now I have some new:

    Going out tonight for a friends birthday. Spoke to Steven on facebook chat about it and it turns out he is going to my exes for predrinks, meaning that she will be around.

    Same sort of scenario, bar, then club.

    Handle it the same as I did last night? Or should I try to talk to her?

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    Default Re: Dumped without warning. How can I get her back?

    handle it the same. its not likely that he'll get anywhere with her, and even if he does you should not alow it to ruin your friendship with him. you gotta realize that she will eventualy move on just as you have. don't get upset if you see her with other guys. you've gotta realize you don't need her! she's just another girl and you won't get her back until you can truly move on and be over her.

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    Default Re: Dumped without warning. How can I get her back?

    So she just sent me a text, this is the first contact I've had from her.

    She asked for a truce and to be friends again?

    Obviously I don't want to be friends... How do I handle this properly?

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    Default Re: Dumped without warning. How can I get her back?

    it seems like she is making her move, it is definately a shit test! be careful. i would tell her that i thought she was already my friend (and put her in your friendzone) tell her that if she is just trying to get back with you, you aren't interested keep her in your friendzone and play hard to get. and countinue gaming other girls openly in front of her you will send her on an emotional rollercoaster of "he loves me, he loves me not" have fun with it and don't allow her to change the frame. she's in your friendzone and she isn't good enough to be anything more than a friend. you are the prize, she must fight for it

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    Default Re: Dumped without warning. How can I get her back?

    Last night was a disaster.

    Everything started out fine, same as the night before.

    By the time we get to the second bar me and a friend are doing shots and having a laugh, we decided it would be funny to play a prank on Steven. Basically the prank went too far and he ended up with ketchup on his jacket.

    I ended up getting the entire blame for it and our entire group is pissed off at me. Steven is making a huge scene by now and she joins in, just as angry as he is.

    One of her ex boyfriends used this as a fantastic opportunity to push me out of the group and latch onto her.

    Yes I have apologised to Steven and I am paying for the dry cleaning of the jacket.

    Obviously this is my own fault, but I don't know how to come back from it?

    EDIT: So apparently he was too drunk to remember the apology as he has just deleted me off of Facebook. Nightmare.


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