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    Default Re: Need Advice On How To Proceed

    Okay apparently I've been handling this wrong so how would you handle it if the following happens? I'd like to not screw this up more than it already is.

    maybe actually listen to all the advise that is presented to you, we can help you with everything apart from the -->execution<--- of it
    Batman, Flyer and myself have provided you with information that you ignored and kept being needy with

    Best of luck with your quick fix finding

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    Default Re: Need Advice On How To Proceed

    Its a long road, theres no quick fix! Which is why lots of people say to just move on, since it's easier to attract somebody new then to re-attract someone who lost their attraction for you. you'd have to plan, and things might not go according to plan but you'll still have to exert self-control

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    Default Re: Need Advice On How To Proceed

    Got it and have listened. Just wanted to know what some others think. Have used everything I've been told and today it's paying off.

    We texted a bit yesterday about inconsequential stuff. As we were just about done I told her she should buy me lunch tomorrow since she didn't even call on my birthday. She said she would call tonight but that she had to work in the morning. She was at home so guessing that other things were going on that night or she had a lot to say and it was already kinda late. Things went well and had her laughing while at the same time insulting her about being a big dork and how much of a nerd she is. Finally it came down to hanging up and mentioned that I had gift cards from my birthday that I was going to use today to go clothes shopping. Told her she should come with me cause I know how women like to dress men. She didn't hesitate to say yes, and I know that while we're walking around looking at clothing to not appear interested in her and go in with no expectations. Going to use Push/Pull and if she tries to get personal just say I don't wanna talk about that right now.

    This is the first time we've really met up since we split and just using it to feel her out and see how she's feeling, watching for signs of ioi. If things go well then I'll wait for awhile and try to get her to go for a drink or maybe a quick lunch.

    Edit: I ask for input because this is the first time I've pretty much ran into someone who is almost like me. I know it sounds a little strange saying this but I've never considered what it would be like to pick myself up, and having an outsider's point of view helps.

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    Default Re: Need Advice On How To Proceed

    K going to provide every single detail so that you experts can pick it apart and tell me if I did something wrong.

    We had a set time to meet up. I showed up a little late, not so much that it would cut into our time. When I got off the escalator she was standing in her department looking towards them. I walked up and asked if she was ready to go and she had a little pouty look on her face. I ignored it and said lets hit it. She said she couldn't until her backup arrived. Told her I was going to walk around the mall until he got there and she could text me when she was ready. She asked me to stay and I told her that I didn't want to hang around in her area while she was supposed to be working and that there were people she should be helping. I walked off and I could hear her stomp her feet a little. This made me smile.

    When she was ready she said lets go get some clothes. Told her I didn't know if I wanted to since I had to wait 45 minutes, smiling while I said it. She smiled and we walked off. At first she started out in front of me, but within a few seconds she fell into step beside me like she use to. She walked within inches of me as we headed to the food court. She asked if I liked her boots and told her yeah, my 16 year old niece has a pair and that she was almost as tall as me with them on. Told her since she didn't call me she should buy me lunch to make up for it. Got the lunch. We sat and talked about different things, holidays and such while we ate.

    We walked to Penny's and again she fell into step right beside me. She asked how some of our friends were doing that fell on hard times. Told her if her highness felt to hang around the little people again she'd know these things, again smiling while saying it. She smiled and I filled her in on all the stuff she's missed since she's kept her distance. We walked over and I found a few shirts I wanted while we kept talking. The subject of her going to college came up and she said she was going to a specific one and asked why she would choose the one farthest away. She said her boyfriend went to that one and that this way they could carpool. Just said that's cool and changed the subject.

    After Penny's it was time for her to go to work. I managed to get her to keep talking so that she was 5 minutes late clocking back in. She had a customer that was asking a question and she walked off to look up something for him. He started a conversation with me asking if she was my wife. Just looked at him and said not yet while grinning. When she came back he and I were in deep discussion about guitars, something she loves. I kept the conversation with the guy going as long as I could, keeping her standing there waiting to talk to him. After she finished with him she and I talked another 10 minutes before I looked at my phone and said I gotta jet, prior engagement. She said she'd contact me soon.

    K the entire time we were together she either was right next to me or just to my side. She even got close enough to rub elbows and when I would get close to her to look at something she didn't pull away. When we were talking by the escalator she made sure to lean back against it so that her breasts were sticking out and she put her legs out towards me. Had her laughing quite a bit and avoided anything pertaining to our prior relationship.

    Now, what do you think? Did I handle this properly for a first time actually spending real time together? Is there something different I could have done?

    Also forgot to mention that I was able to get all kinds of information from her with just a little prodding and the right words. Told me her schedule for the next three weeks, what time she'd be getting off the next couple of days, what she's been doing recently and other little things like that. They may not be all that important but I just wanted to see how open she was to a little suggestion and if she'd tell me anything personal like doctor appointments and such which she did.


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