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    darkhorn is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Question How to win her back?

    First of all this is not a girl that I have met in a random location whatsoever. We have many common friends in homeland but not here. And there is many reasons for both of us to be gf/bf but somehow I screwed it up by being not enough manly.

    Then she told me that she tried but do not want to be my gf. Few months later I have contacted her and she accepted to talk after I have insisted. It was very good for few days and suddenly and AFC act from me (from past).

    Second time I wanted to try, if not possible then to end it well. She didn't answer my phones etc. But I told her that what I really want is to end it well. Then we talked and we have end it well.

    2 months later I have opened a new Facebook account (with no pic). I have not asked to be friends on Facebook but she has blocked me. I find it very rude, there is no real reason for her to block me! At least she can pretend to be kind by not blocking me.

    Now I'm both angry and I think that she didn't understand me. I'm going to talk with her but I don't know what kind of behavior should I carry.

    By the way I have gained 9 kilograms since she saw me for last time. I was skinny. Now I'm not.

    Should I be more like "would you like to go out with me?" or "It won't be good for your new bf when you got a new one, better we must met until then". ?

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    The Red Baron is offline PUA All Star
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    Default Re: How to win her back?

    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    GoatMcGoaterson is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How to win her back?

    By the way you portray the situation you really just need to focus on yourself before you try and win her over. Read the guides on getting your exes back they all basically say that you need to move on and improve yourself.

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    darkhorn is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How to win her back?

    I have improved myself over time. Now, my question was how to get in touch with her? But all these guides tell me to move on which is the pusiest thing I have ever read.

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    darkhorn is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How to win her back?

    Quote Originally Posted by The Red Baron View Post
    It says "Finally, now is the time to break NC. Tell her you were thinking about her the other day and would like to meet and catch up. Keep it light; a walk, coffee, ice cream."

    Here is the problem, I cannot contact her. This is talking as if you are already good friends.

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    jackerson is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: How to win her back?

    send her a light text, where both of you had a good time together after a period of NC. i.e. a sweet memory or thank her for something she's done.

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    Default Re: How to win her back?

    and if she replies, say something like, i agreed that the breakup was for the best, but it would be a waste to throw away our friendship. Sneak in from the "friend" point of view and game her.

    At least, that was what i would have done back then with the things i have realised now.


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