First post, so here goes...
I'll preface this with I know this could be a case of Oneitis. I hope that during this process I can figure it out, and I think the situation will lend itself to that.
So, I started looking into PUA stuff just to boost my confidence really. Took that confidence to a frat party, danced and made out with a sober chick with a little bit of talk, was polite for a dude who was grinding with her. She leaves after two hours, i think I'll never see her again. She adds me on skype two days later, she has a long range BF. I wasn't quite sure what was going on, but just to see if I could, I apply Kino Escalation and BF destroyer stuff, which worked, and she was out of a relationship with him in a week and in one with me. F-closed her 3 days later. She had to remain connected to the ex because she had been living with him and he had all her sh1t, so i was chill with the occasional chat. About a month in, she starts talking to ex more and more, almost breaks up with me on a break. Things are good for 3 more weeks, minor fights about BS, then she says shes still in love with ex and she can't be with me, breaks up. We are back together the next day after I give IOD's and more, again per this fourms advisement. I was super emotional then, so I'm surprised it worked. She says shes still in love with ex and will try and move past.
Fast forward to last tuesday. She goes back home to catch a flight to go to her parents, sees ex. I notice it immediately. It was like the almost break up all over again. I got needy over that week since i was stuck alone in my dorm (fark flying for turkey day) and on sunday, I said i was fine with just being friends. On monday, we hung out, I tried to create some sexual tension with Kino etc. while watching TV. I froze her out, kinda was like w/e to her presence, she asks whats wrong. I say calmly that it (friends) isnt working. She wants to talk right before she has to go to something (she had like 15 mins to spare) and I say "I think you should go." She texts me that night she will give me space to decide if we are still friends. So, at that point, I was going nearly no contact, just polite stuff if she bugged me. She texts me four times this morning before i wake up and calls me to use my scanner. I dont see why not as long as im non nonchalant. I keep that nonchalantness the entire time, taking a shower while she tries to work the scanner, getting the scanner to work for her, some small talk. She asks if anything is wrong because I hadn't looked at her (there really hadn't been a opportunity), i played it off as such and kept it light. She asked if we ere friends, I shrugged, she left angry at me, slammed the door. In class she texts me 3 times, asking if I still want a present she was making me, I say sure if she wants to make it. she also asks how much she owes me (quite a bit) and we work out details. She left me a couple more texts and i responded lazily, delayed. All is ok until she says shes in a relationship on FB and tries to hide it. I dont loose my cool to her, but take her off skype and FB. Last convo with her is as below
her: u unfriended me?
me: yeah, so?
her: uhm thought u hadnt decided we weren't friends?
me: didnt feel like seeing your status updates anymore.
her: on here? i never update on here. i understand fb bc of obvious but i dnt update skype
me: meh, kinda associated the two
her : well i never update skype statuses tho....but i understand if u dont add me back
2 hours later...
her: thank you
her: it said you added me back on here....
I was beta as fark a few weeks into the relationship.
I have two weeks (this and next week, which is finals) til going home across the country for a month, where I will be super social, work out, and have a blast in general.
She is either staying on campus or going to her parents, BF is a couple hours away either way, but hes poor as fark so its unlikely he will have many if any trips to see her.
Her issues with BF started after she was at college for a month and couldn't be social because of him.
So my questions are....
Any issues with what has happened so far?
Low contact (polite, only responses) or no contact?
Ease back into her life via social media before im back, or when I do get back? OR wait even longer?
She won't be able to see whats going on in my life via media unless its my profile pic because of my restrictions, change it?
Am I missing any part of the strategy here?