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    Arrow Broke up after 2 years need help!!

    My ex broke up with me about a month and a half ago. We had an argument the weekend of her birthday and she ended up breaking up with me that night. To give a little background now i realize i was a total AFC during the last couple months of the relationship (clingy and probably over barring). That night I was a total AFC and apologized and begged her to work things out but she simply said "I have nothing left to give" . Needless to say i was down in the dumps. I called her on her birthday and broke down total AFC style again and we said we would be friends. I text her that day and invited her out to the movies for her birthday. We went that Friday and had fun but it was like reliving the break up all over again. That Saturday i told her i needed to stop talking to her for a while because it was hurting me more than anything, and what does she do she texts me about something random 10 minutes later (<----was this a Sh1t Test). So i went 1 week with no contact and felt I really needed closure so I told her I wanted to meet with her one more time to really get some answers before i would erase her number and delete her of Facebook. She was kind of cold about it but we where suppose to meet a week from then and talk. I decided to delete her of Facebook that same night anyway, and what do i wake up too the next morning? A friend request from her on Facebook, WTF?! (<---- Sh1t Test?) So i called her out on it ad she went on to say she didn't add me so she doesn't know why it said that on FB. Well after that I sent her on more text that said:

    ME: If you don't miss me enough to work things out that's fine but let me go and I don't need to meet on Thursday anymore its stupid of me to think things will change or get any easier.

    She didn't reply after that. I've been on NC for 3 weeks now. I Love this girl and although I've been out having fun, improving myself and just doing me. I think I have a serious case of One-itis, but i don't want to regret not trying to make it work later because I really care about her. so can it be salvaged? and what should be my next move?
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    Default Re: Broke up after 2 years need help!!

    I was in a smiliar situation 10 months ago. AFC towards the end doing everything to get her back. I got her back for a month once she knew she had me she played me like the fool i was. We broke up again and i wasted months trying to get her back. Untill one day T-Mal on here gave me the slap i needed.

    I have now learnt from this. It is good to see you are bettering yourlife. Get a new hobby, go out and get girls numbers, make new freinds. Set your self a target for example "today i am going to smile at 5 random people " then move it up "today i am going to say hi to 5 random people" and so on. Itll do loads for your confidence which is what you need right now.

    The only way to get her back is when your ready to let her go. Youll know when your ready. So your next move? Go and live your life, dont be a plan B it only gets in the way of plan A. Theres only one person you can change and that is YOU, not her.

    It may feel like the end of the world right now, but there is one thing i can promise you, it isnt.

    Go and live your life if she wants you shell hit you back up thats one thing for certain. They normally come back once you relise you dont want them anyway, lifes sorta sh1tty like that. IF its a big IF she does hit you up take it slow and game her. Give nothing away women live on drama.

    Striker x

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    Unhappy Re: Broke up after 2 years need help!!

    Thanks Striker I really appreciate the advice and believe me I understand it. The only reason I've been able to stay on NC for so long is because I know its the right thing to do and that running to her will only push her away more. After reading all the threads on here about "Getting her back" I understand what I should do.

    But after reading a lot of other peoples situation on here I now see even clearer that there is always a battle between your knowledge/what you KNOW you should do
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    I KNOW I should keep NC, I KNOW I should forget about her and find someone better. I KNOW it didn't work out for a reason.

    But then there's what you FEEL
    I FEEL I'll regret not trying to make it work. I FEEL like we where always suppose to end up together. I FEEL like it will work out between us eventually.

    Now are those feelings completely nuts and not grounded on facts? Yeah of course they are! and the worst part is that i KNOW that and I'm still willing to idiotically throw myself in to the fire for this girl. Why? good question I ask myself that every single day as I try to get over her.

    I know what your giving me and what I've read so far is sound advice. Sometimes the truth is just a really hard pill to swallow.
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    Default Re: Broke up after 2 years need help!!

    Broke NC today after reading The EX2 system. I'm giving it one more shot before I give up and move on. If you guys have anymore tips keep them coming. I'll keep this updated kind of as a review of the EX2 System. Thanks.
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    Default Re: Broke up after 2 years need help!!

    Quote Originally Posted by CALIKILLER View Post
    Broke NC today after reading The EX2 system. I'm giving it one more shot before I give up and move on. If you guys have anymore tips keep them coming. I'll keep this updated kind of as a review of the EX2 System. Thanks.

    Dont follow stupid systems like that. Ive tried them all. Ex2, text your ex, relationship rewind. Dont waste your time.

    All your doing is freind zoning yourself. I didnt listen to advice and now shes gone. I can see now all the mistakes that i made in your own situation. Its your choice wether you choose to follow the advice of cody and t-mal. Its solid advice and its the only thing that will work. DO NOT break no contact untill she texts you.

    Re Read your own second post! YOU KNOW what your doing is pushing her further away. Do you expect a different results this time?

    Man up, Stick to NC and live the dream.

    striker x

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    Default Re: Broke up after 2 years need help!!

    Thanks Striker I needed a decent slap in the face. Like i said in my earlier post I did break No Contact today (yeah I know stupid stupid stupid). I text her and we texted for a few minutes and she ended up not texting me back after a few messages. Its either a Sh1t Test or she really doesnt give a crap anymore.

    So i guess I'm going back to NC I have nothing else left to do but go out enjoy life and see what happens.I actually have a date tonight with an HB7 should be fun. It will also help me take my mind of the ex. I've decided to move on and let it work itself out if its meant to be It'll happen.
    Before you criticize a man, walk a mile in his shoes. That way, if he gets angry, he's a mile away and barefoot.

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