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    Default Re: NICE GUYs - let out tension w/ the F*ck U game

    I feel you man.

    Thats kind of why Im just gonna let those flowers roll. Im just curious as to whether or not shell say something about it. And if not? Whats that mean?

    Also, just super farkin pissed that I pressured her into all this before new years. If I see a pic of her macking some chump just because she wanted a new years hubby ill farkin lose my shit.

    I want to contact her honestly and just explain to her that I wasnt ready (she thought I was and said she wasnt really and I think thats what scared her off, but really I wasnt) and I made a mistake and I think its a mistake we just ended it and shouldve just forgot about that weekend and kept dating slowly, but im just dead set on her.

    You have to understand (and clearly she doesnt...) i spent the past four years...my ENTIRE college life chasing her from a distance and then i finally get my chance and its over like that. Boom. We dated for a year but literally i avoided having sex with ANY other girls for 4 years now (and especially the last year) thinking that Now that I had her into me it would work out for sure and all that time wouldve been totally worth it.

    I had oneitis so bad I pissed away 4 yrs and didnt even get to fark once with her. That bad dude. This is on another level, way harder to get over than anything i could ever conjure hypothetically and its my reality. I need help! Im blowin it hard here!

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    Default Re: NICE GUYs - let out tension w/ the F*ck U game

    @Sly

    life does some messed up sh*t... but what happens here is - we learn good lessons.

    when u r in the terms of giving - remind urself that u may not receive.

    are u giving so that u can expect to receive.?

    a different way of saying this is -- all this giving u do for a girl -- does she now owe u.?

    the more u hold onto expecting -- the more ur setting ur urself up for pain.
    --// 1. pain of when they r gonna reciprocate
    --// 2. pain of returning equal to ur gifts.
    --// 3. pain

    and this is the same as love... u've given so much emotionally/etc, why isn't it being returned.

    let it go...

    what is she gonna think abt the flowers.?

    let it go...

    will she crawl back.?

    let it go...

    if i see her with some guy...

    let it go...

    let - it - go....

    have u ever lent anyone money and they've yet/will never pay it back.? that feeling sucks... but when u let it go -- it becomes nothing to u...

    u give - u should not expect return.

    this is also why u will now give with more caution in the future....

    if u are the man - u will find someone else... and they will be thankful to have such a thoughtful man....... hopefully, a man who is aware that giving does not mean receiving back.

    GL, man

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    Default Re: NICE GUYs - let out tension w/ the F*ck U game

    also, ur oneitis can be cured with this approach... worded differently.

    instead of seeing her as "the one". look at her again and say, "she's just another girl"

    u expect just because she is X, that she is actually Y..
    ex.
    --// she is a doctor/genius - she must be witty
    --// she is hot funny - she is my type

    why bother with that.? if u can achieve this understanding, than u can cure a lot of life's problems.

    "Be like water making its way through cracks. Do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, and you shall find a way around or through it. If nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves.

    Empty your mind, be formless. Shapeless, like water. If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Now, water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend."
    -- Bruce Lee

    expect - and fail... conform... flow. let the result come to u.

    GL

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    Default Re: NICE GUYs - let out tension w/ the F*ck U game

    Thx dude. That helps. For how long i dunno but ill keep it in mind.

    I guess my only regret is not sticking to my guns when I cut her off the first time, I KnEw is was bein played I just didnt wanna believe it when she begged to continue things. Lesson learned.

    You think theres any hopes of scoring an HB8-10 for some new years fun? It would make me feel like 2013 was gonna be the best year of my new life.

    Im okay with not receiving now. If it doesnt last past new years that okay but I still want someone to e with for the new year.

    Any tips for spotting HBs within a set that might be feeling the same way? Is there any way to be direct about this intention or should I just play it cool 100% of the time and expect nothing at all?

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    Default Re: NICE GUYs - let out tension w/ the F*ck U game

    Quote Originally Posted by YOKiTran View Post
    also, ur oneitis can be cured with this approach... worded differently.

    instead of seeing her as "the one". look at her again and say, "she's just another girl"

    u expect just because she is X, that she is actually Y..
    ex.
    --// she is a doctor/genius - she must be witty
    --// she is hot funny - she is my type

    why bother with that.? if u can achieve this understanding, than u can cure a lot of life's problems.

    "Be like water making its way through cracks. Do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, and you shall find a way around or through it. If nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves.

    Empty your mind, be formless. Shapeless, like water. If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Now, water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend."
    -- Bruce Lee

    expect - and fail... conform... flow. let the result come to u.

    GL
    Wow. That is...bar none the most inspiring quote ive ever heard. I love Bruce Lee but thats one I never heard/remembered or took note of. Thanks again man. You are an inspiration as well. Sometimes just some thoughtful words can change everything.

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    Default Re: NICE GUYs - let out tension w/ the F*ck U game

    go out - even if ur by urself... go out and throw urself into the water.

    the holiday mentality will put pressure on u
    wanting a girl will put pressure on u
    if ur doing it solo - pressure is on u

    but if u have the will - truly, forget all that and go out.

    refer to forums on PU if u feel u need to learn approach.
    be honest - don't fight that u prolly do..... i know i did.

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    Default Re: NICE GUYs - let out tension w/ the F*ck U game

    Quote Originally Posted by YOKiTran View Post
    go out - even if ur by urself... go out and throw urself into the water.

    the holiday mentality will put pressure on u
    wanting a girl will put pressure on u
    if ur doing it solo - pressure is on u

    but if u have the will - truly, forget all that and go out.

    refer to forums on PU if u feel u need to learn approach.
    be honest - don't fight that u prolly do..... i know i did.
    I actually have really been wanting to go out alone but whats the approach to that?

    Do I just hop in a bar seat start with a pint and assess the current HB possibilities?

    How does a good PUA roll solo? Ive tried to think of some openers about my friends ditching me and then pretending they contact me and telling the girls I dont care if they switched plans and want me to meet them, and that Im going to meet a different friend instead now somewhere where they arent. And then try to Number Close on that note of me being alpha and doing my own thing and choosing a different friend for the night.

    Would that maybe work?

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    Default Re: NICE GUYs - let out tension w/ the F*ck U game

    if u want good result
    1. goto bar and sit down.
    2. chat with everyone in ur vicinity and care.
    3. in time, girls will come and u make observational convo with them.
    4. do some Chick Crack
    5. when things r excellent, pull ur phone out
    6. tell them u have to leave soon but u think they're awesome
    7. OK, how do u spell ur name.?
    (Cody method)
    8. And ur number is...
    9. Nice to meet u - exit to next bar
    (little Kino - for implied method)

    if u want excellent returns
    1. stand at the bar and chat everyone up
    2. when ur warmed up - approach women
    -- use ur PU of choice.
    3. i just approach them with observational
    4. do chick crack
    5. kino
    6. pull out phone
    7. tell em ur going
    8. tell them that u want to continue this another time
    9. she agrees and u ask for her #
    this is more direct - the last is implied method
    10. float around bar n repeat.

    it's not as simple as 1-whatever tho.... u need to go out and approach to be able to get use to the tempo - reactions - and how u can fit what material where.

    what i mean is - u'll need to find ur own speech routine... even if u watch video and read, u can't be that person u see.... u can only take what is congruent to ur PU and go.

    PS. avoid controversial openers... like wheel chair. i've been blown out more often using that type

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    Default Re: NICE GUYs - let out tension w/ the F*ck U game

    Perfect 2 questions tho:

    Chick crack? Like bash on them for something? Like negging?

    And also whats this controversial " wheel chair" PU?

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    Default Re: NICE GUYs - let out tension w/ the F*ck U game

    chick crack:
    magic - personality tests - palm read

    wheelchair routine:
    would u date a guy in a wheelchair.?... look it up


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