Long story short she broke it off (knowing that if she did there would be no contact) on the grounds that there was "no spark". We'd been talking for years and dating for a year even tho she lived 2hrs away.
So no sex ever happened, she broke it off when i invited her out for the weekend recently and I was a beta bitch and didnt get the job done. She wanted to be friends still, said some shit about how she forced herself to like me, blah blah blah, i played the genuine card and didnt bitch or moan, got sad driving her home but thats it.
Anyway, been what two weeks? And she texted me last night WHILE WITH FRIENDS and said the ol "i miss you :/"
Two hours later (didnt respond) I get another one: "ignore that last text. Drunk thinking. Sorry to bother you. Night Night *Sly."
Sooo I was wasted too and really wanted to be like "isnt drunk thinking code for honest thinking? I miss you too :/" but I withheld and now this morning Im glad I didnt
BUT i still do wanna make amends and give it another shot. I think we both know that that weekend visit was a bad idea and forced us into something we were close to ready for but not quite ready. Shouldve kept taking it slow there was no reason to rush ito anything from a distance.
What do her texts indicate given the time frame (1 at midnight the 2nd at 2am)
What can I do to reciprocate and show her I know how shes feeling and get things on the table so we can maybe get back together?
Key is I want to come off alpha though...so if that means I should initiate contact but control the frame and be friends for a little before saying anythig about "us" then so be it. Lemme kno what i can do to get the job doneee