Background: So I dated this girl for about a month my senior year of high school. She broke up with me basically because I was going to college far away and she was probably staying there or going to school somewhere completely different. We banged the next week... (happened to be my first time) and then again a few days later. I got weird that night and asked her if she loved me while she was sleep talking (didn't thinks she was really asleep) she acts weird next morning, texts me that night saying she was awake and really weirded out. She stops talking to me. Then hits me up towards the end of my first semester asking if we can talk like we used to and how i was a really great boyfriend and didn't deserve to be treated like that. I get back home a few weeks later and we are gonna meet up at a friends christmas party. She tells me to come, i dont end up making it. She stops talking to me again. And for the last 3 years basically our only contact has been my wishing her a happy birthday every year. I've texted her a few times with no response although she definitely got a new number at some point. Some were pretty AFC...
Here's a draft of one i want to send her, gotta be on Facebook cuz I don't have her number. None of the texts and previous messages were this style. Most were more whiney like hey I really miss you can we just talk. Or just letting you know I still think about you or some shizzz
Hey i just graduated and am in town for a few weeks, any chance you'd wanna get together to catch up? Honestly feels really weird not being on speaking terms with the girl i lost my virginity to haha. let me know
Thoughts?? Was going for short and to the point. I really do just wanna catch up. If it means we hook up then all the better