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    mrtorrence is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Draft of message to Ex that doesn't really speak to me anymore

    Background: So I dated this girl for about a month my senior year of high school. She broke up with me basically because I was going to college far away and she was probably staying there or going to school somewhere completely different. We banged the next week... (happened to be my first time) and then again a few days later. I got weird that night and asked her if she loved me while she was sleep talking (didn't thinks she was really asleep) she acts weird next morning, texts me that night saying she was awake and really weirded out. She stops talking to me. Then hits me up towards the end of my first semester asking if we can talk like we used to and how i was a really great boyfriend and didn't deserve to be treated like that. I get back home a few weeks later and we are gonna meet up at a friends christmas party. She tells me to come, i dont end up making it. She stops talking to me again. And for the last 3 years basically our only contact has been my wishing her a happy birthday every year. I've texted her a few times with no response although she definitely got a new number at some point. Some were pretty AFC...

    Here's a draft of one i want to send her, gotta be on Facebook cuz I don't have her number. None of the texts and previous messages were this style. Most were more whiney like hey I really miss you can we just talk. Or just letting you know I still think about you or some shizzz

    Hey i just graduated and am in town for a few weeks, any chance you'd wanna get together to catch up? Honestly feels really weird not being on speaking terms with the girl i lost my virginity to haha. let me know

    Thoughts?? Was going for short and to the point. I really do just wanna catch up. If it means we hook up then all the better

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    mrtorrence is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Draft of message to Ex that doesn't really speak to me anymore

    Seriously people? Anyone have any constructive criticism for this message?

    Here it is again...

    "Hey i just graduated and am in town for a few weeks, any chance you'd wanna get together to catch up? Honestly feels really weird not being on speaking terms with the girl i lost my virginity to haha. let me know"

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    Default Re: Draft of message to Ex that doesn't really speak to me anymore

    I would leave out the virginity comment. I mean, you did ask her if she loved you after you lost it right? That would bring back some uncomfortable memories for her.

    I would approach her like this:

    "Hey, I just graduated and turns out i'm going to be in town for a little bit. Would you want to grab some coffee or some food one day and catch up?"

    Don't give her a time frame, she will drag her feet and blow you off till last minute. Also you want to word it like you are talking to an old friend, not an old fling.

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    Default Re: Draft of message to Ex that doesn't really speak to me anymore

    Don't be so nice. I know you have feelings for her, but good god man have some restraint. She can read right through that whole message and deduce that you want her badly. Your aim is to keep her guessing. She craves mystery so farking give it to her! It's your job as a man. Me personally, I would say "I'm in town for a little bit, don't miss out on the fun."
    “The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of the engagement; you ought not to be thinking of whether it ends in victory or defeat. Let nature take its course, and your tools will strike at the right moment.” -Bruce Lee

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    mrtorrence is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Draft of message to Ex that doesn't really speak to me anymore

    I ended up seeing her at a bar last night so I just hit her up today saying hey it was good seeing you. I'm here til the 11th if you want to get together to catch up and stuff.

    Not the best but i honestly don't think she'll reply anyway. Ouffff


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