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    Adalbert86 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Two months have passed since she DUMPED me. What now?

    I met her very early this year. She is from the same country as me, but we are both living in America.

    It was love on a first sight. We spent beautiful 6 months together. Sometimes we argued, but we always reconciled.

    We broke up 2 months ago. Shortly before that, she had to move to another town two hours away because of her studies. Our relationship turned long-distance. We would see each other only once every two weeks.

    Problems started. She started with accusing me of being very different than her, being lazy, bla bla bla. She started talking more about ending the relationship. But I never paid much attention to it, because I didn't believe she could do it.

    She did, she dumped me !

    It left me devastated for several weeks. I decided to get over her. Immediately started NO CONTACT. She defriended me on Facebook, and I blocked her. Things very getting good again.

    Last week, when I thought I was over her, somebody just sent me a random Christmas photo with her new boyfriend. It was a shock for me and I started to miss her again.

    We have been still NO CONTACT for the last month and half. I'd want to try to get her back eventually. What do you suggest? Should I break the NC ?

    Should I at least text her "Happy New Year ... " message?

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    Default Re: Two months have passed since she DUMPED me. What now?

    Move the fuck on bro... She has, why stay pining over her

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    Adalbert86 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Two months have passed since she DUMPED me. What now?

    I still do love her. Two months have passed, so I had a lot of time thinking about that.

    Even though she looks happy, I do hope the new guy is just a rebound.

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    Default Re: Two months have passed since she DUMPED me. What now?

    I'm going to challenge you by saying you're coming from a very low status. You have more value than that! Get over her, the situation isn't worth the pain that you're creating for yourself. Stop being needy, stop being emo, realize the feelings you have are only because you placed her on a pedestal higher than the one you place yourself on and go out and meet new women.
    Caveat: Just because I feel a certain way about my journey doesn't mean you should feel the same about yours.

    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.

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    Adalbert86 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Two months have passed since she DUMPED me. What now?

    Thank you guys for your responses. Rationally, I believe you are right. I am having very low status right now...

    I wish I listened to you. I already wished and texted her "happy new year" and she just replied with "you too". I feel like a crap again.

    I want to meet some new women. The problem is they don't want me, because of me feeling bad still.

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    Default Re: Two months have passed since she DUMPED me. What now?

    Study & apply man. Take massive action.
    Caveat: Just because I feel a certain way about my journey doesn't mean you should feel the same about yours.

    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.


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