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Thread: I will get my ex back...but I need help!

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    Default Re: I will get my ex back...but I need help!

    Remove yourself from that account asap. jealousy leads to anger and insecurity.

    Always remember that.

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    Default Re: I will get my ex back...but I need help!

    The whole "get your girlfriend back" thing is just cancerous. Honestly, the best thing you can do is move on. I know it's difficult, and there's always a strong desire to keep fighting, but is that really what you want?

    If she's left you once, what will stop her from doing it again if you get back together? Let it go. You're better than this pathetic shit.

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    Default Re: I will get my ex back...but I need help!

    Any updates on this story? I'd like to know how it went

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    Default Re: I will get my ex back...but I need help!

    Quote Originally Posted by SomeNickname3 View Post
    Any updates on this story? I'd like to know how it went
    Ooof it kills me to reread this nonsense. I know many of you are in the same spot I was. Broken hearted. Hating life. The only thing that gets you from one minute to the next is the hope that some day you'll get that text/phone call that you've been waiting on for months. Having lived this hell, let me give you some wisdom on how getting your ex back feels...

    That text/call will likely never come...and even if it does, it probably isn't for the best. I waited for about 6 months. My sole intention was to improve myself, for her, not for me. I lied and told myself I was healing but all I was doing was letting that cancer spread throughout my body.

    Over the next 6 months I had a very attractive coworker start hitting on me, who was actually much better looking than my ex. I started gaining confidence. I gained about 30lbs of muscle. I began progressing even further in my career. Unfortunately the attractive coworker lost interest after about a month of casual dating. I'm certain that had I spent the first 6 months after my breakup truly healing I would have been able to close her.

    The next 6 months were spent working on nothing but myself. No dating. I gained another 15 lbs of muscle. I passed a couple of exams that allowed me to get a promotion that paid me almost $20k more a year. I completely forgot about my ex. Deleted her from my life. Deleted the phone number, facebook, email address anything and everything that could connect me to her. She was never going to be anything but cancerous and I finally got rid of her.

    The last 6 months I have been having a lot of success with a lot of different girls. Meeting girls mostly online, but I'm a completely new person than I was 2 years ago. When I compare the girls I'm getting now to my ex I can't help but wonder what the hell was I thinking?? There are so many more quality girls out there to be with. Don't dwell on that one that isn't there any more. They can all be replaced. I never in my life thought I would say that. Reread this thread from the beginning. The guy that wrote that first message would have fought you to the death if you tried to tell him his ex could be replaced.

    Oh and just for the icing on the cake, I'll give you the last update I have on my ex and how her life has turned out...She is still with old man manager guy. They both got fired from their horrible retail job. He is now an assistant manager at a book store. She couldn't get another job so she went to beauty school to become a hairstylist. Before even completing school she got pregnant. They had a courthouse marriage out of "necessity". Guess she got the life she always dreamed of.

    Do yourselves a favor fellas. Get over her. Meet new people. Better yourself. If she happens to come back, there's no better feeling in the world knowing you would say no because you CAN DO BETTER!

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    Default Re: I will get my ex back...but I need help!

    That first post is the saddest thing I ever read on this forum.
    Hey brother Seriously I'm glad you got stronger and became a better you for YOU not her. fark THAT BITCH, she threw away 8 years for who? WTF ARE YOU KIDDING ME? Please if she tries to ever comeback for any reason whatsoever man, do yourself a massive favor and just tell her to FF OFF. You deserve so much better than that, Go conquer life and crush it. A MAN LIKE YOU DESERVES A WOMAN 100000000000 TIMES BETTER THAN THAT WTF WAS SHE ON.


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