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Thread: Is she worth getting back at all?

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    Default Is she worth getting back at all?

    I have a friend girl. First she was my GF 3 years ago. We had no sex. At that time she once left me because of my fault. Then she moved to the other city for studies.
    Some time later she wanted to bring our relationship back, because she was sorry for that. She got home and we dated. However after some dates she told me she didn't consider me her BF anymore. So I ended up the relationship.
    We hadn't been in touch for a long time ever since, she only kept sending me happy birthday messages on the Internet for those years. Once she asked me to do her a favor - to go through a love psychological test. But I refused saying it was a stupid test. She sarcastically said she'd chosen it according to her mental abilities. I said 'Yes, you have'. At once she deleted me. After that we hadn't met and talked.
    But one day I saw her in the street on August 2012 and I just wanted to make her my GF again. So I sent her a message and finally we started communicating.
    In the fall I was misdiagnosed about my heart. I was told in a hospital that I got heart cancer, at that time I didn't know it was wrong. I was gonna tell her about it.
    On November when she got home for a couple of days we went out together. She invited me home, I got a bottle of wine. At home we started watching a movie I was already gonna get laid when her girlfriend called her and she told me she needed to go. We'd decided to go out the next day but when I called she didn't answer for the whole day. After 3-4 calls she finally answered and kept giggling with her girlfriends during our talk. I could hardly understand what she was saying, it drove me so crazy. Anyway, we met and I told her about my problem since she was the only one I wanted to share it with. She told me she'd never leave me then. Later I tried to take her hand but she refused it. The next day when we met I told her that I felt she didn't consider me a likely BF. She said we'd be friends.
    When she was gone we kept communicating on the Internet. It was very annoying because it took so many days for her to answer, even though she read my messages at once I'd sent them. I thought she didn't wanna be in contact with me. One day I send her my favorite music tracks and it turned out she didn't even check them out. I didn't wanna impose on her and wright anymore. Later I found out about my misdiagnosis.
    She wrote to me on December 30 saying 'I'll be home tomorrow'. So I answered 'I can see you about 10 p.m'. The next day I was waiting for the answer but I didn't get it. Moreover 2 days later my 2 homeboys came and said they were partying with her and her girlfriends together last night. It hurt me so much. I decided to ignore her forever at once. Recently she wrote 'Happy new year! What you're waiting for? If you don't wanna see me I'm not gonna ask you myself to go out'. I ignored it. The next day she writes again 'I'm sorry. I just went mad.' I also ignored it. Today she's written 'What's wrong with you? Why don't you answer?' I haven't answered. Now I feel that's the way it's gonna stay.
    Now I just wanna know if I should do anything and is there any point at all? Just assuming the fact it's been so long now I'd be sorry to end it all up. Is it possible to make her my GF anyway?
    Hope someone will read this!
    Thanks for every reply!

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    Default Re: Is she worth getting back at all?

    John, sorry to hear about your situation and condition. Look, she's doing the standard female stuff. She's testing you and making you jump through hoops, and then pulling back, and then coming back. I think she is interested on your at some level. I do think you are probably in more of a friend zone now unfortunately. Why do you want this girl as your GF anyway? But if you want to try, I would suggest not necessarily ignoring her, but just don't care. Make her jump through your hoops. Good luck buddy!
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    Default Re: Is she worth getting back at all?

    I wanted her on principle. Firstly, as I said it's been so long; secondly, as far as I know she's still a virgin. You know, the contribution I made - my nerves gotten on and time... I wanted to be the 1st one to deflower her, not to go away empty-handed.
    But now, I've decided to quit this game. She's not worth it.
    Thank you very much for the reply.

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    Default Re: Is she worth getting back at all?

    Smart decision man. She's definitely not worth getting back from the picture painted of her here.

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    Default Re: Is she worth getting back at all?

    Look man, I'm going to point out a couple of things that I noticed in an effort to elevate your game.
    1.Why do you care what she is saying with people on the phone? The fact that your paranoid about who she's talking to is BETA. If she is picking up on the fact that you're high strung and bothered by her phone conversations it's a major farking turnoff. Who cares who she speaks with? YOU CANNOT CONTROL A WOMAN!!! They will do whatever the fark they want to my friend--with or without you.
    2. You tried to take her hand but she refused. There is no comfort. Build more Kino before diving in right away. You were talking about a depressing subject and the female subconscious mind can quickly shut down a freindzoned guy trying to use the "feel sorry for me thing" so he can get some pussy. SHE KNOWS YOU WANT TO fark HER! There, I said it. What, you didn't know she knows? Get her feeling good before you try to touch her hand. She'll be receptive if you build comfort and kino.
    3. You told her that she didn't consider you a likely boyfriend. In so many words... YOU ARE THE FARKING PRIZE MAN! Make her chase you. It's your universe man! It's your world and your frame. If you hold your head up high and give two sh1ts what she thinks, I can almost guarantee you she will respond with sexual interest.
    “The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of the engagement; you ought not to be thinking of whether it ends in victory or defeat. Let nature take its course, and your tools will strike at the right moment.” -Bruce Lee

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    Default Re: Is she worth getting back at all?

    First of all, thanks a lot for the reply.

    Now. I got me wrong, man. Actually I don't care who she speaks with. I just was mad about the way she talked to me. I was treated with disrespect. I got pride! Didn't you think she gave me crap by that?

    My bad, I didn't explain you that just before I tried to touch her I'd cheered her up pretty good so she'd felt really comfortable, one could see that. That's why I decided to try to touch her.

    Anyway, as I said it's over now, I quit this crap.

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    Default Re: Is she worth getting back at all?

    Quote Originally Posted by john miller View Post
    I got me wrong, man.
    Sorry, I meant you got me wrong


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