Re: Get an EX back who was out of a LTR
Wow. I'm actually impressed that she was willing to admit that she was still thinking of her ex and ended it before it got worse. Not many women accept that reality and just lie to themselves to convince otherwise.
Well, obviously you don't want to get into a relationship with someone who still has feelings for her ex. It's just really an unfortunate situation and there isn't much you could've done differently. Take solice in that.
You are right that you should give her space to figure things out and to work on yourself. I know it still sucks because no one likes to lose a woman they actually LIKE. Or even love. Especially to another man. (And in this situation...YOU are actually the other man. Not him.) But it would suck even more if you did stay together and she started talking to her ex behind your back. Maybe even meeting with him and actually doing things with him. Most would just want the cake and eat it to. And almost feel justified in cheating because they were with their ex longer than you. Who knows. Maybe one day she will be completely done with him and want to start again with you with a fresh mind. Hope this helps and good luck.
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