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    Winmau is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Reclaim ex-- Re-contact response?

    Ok, so here's the scenareo: (Thanks in advance)
    I have been seeing this girl at work for about 6 months now, well until last month. I have worked with her for 4 years where she fancied me for most of them .

    Basically I had to leave work for a while. Everything seemed ok and it was only a week before this that she had told a mutual friend she was happy. Long story short she invited me to a place on a night out for me to walk in and be confronted by her being with another guy and point blank in front of everyone ignored me. I calmly walked away thinking there would be a logical explanation(Although seething inside).

    3 days later after holding out no contact i get a tacky message saying sorry she heard she ignored me she was drunk. I thought what utter bs. I then heard from someone at work she had been seing this guy so i went down to see her like wtf going on whereby she threw it back in my face saying we had faded out, get over it! I left quite angrily. (Later heard she said to someone what do i expect if i wouldnt commit to her). I then found she had cheated with her ex just a week earlier aswell!! This was a day after i left work and she asked me to go round but i couldnt. She had even continued texting like nothing was wrong between hooking with her ex and this guy incidet and didnt even bring up her ex when i went for showdown talks. I found out of someone after! So she still had hid that little secret.

    I am now due back in work and would like to know how to handle the situation. Ignore? Angry? Positive? I have held out no contact for about 2 weeks now. What response if she brings up relationship? lets just be friends? etc. Please save me any move on talk as I know what i want, i now need to resort back to some good old game, Ive just never been in this situation. Thanks

    (((Key summary))) Cheated on me, maybe seeing another guy, for failing to commit to her, initially reacted angrily to her, no contact for 2 weeks, due back in work so forced contact

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    Winmau is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Reclaim ex-- Re-contact response?

    Ok, so update! She has text me asking to talk saying she is sorry, i deserve an explanation and didnt realise i would react like that. She says the main problem was communication and she hopes we can be civilised. Can she ring me. Is this just a hoop?? Do i ignore or what?? Thanks

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    Default Re: Reclaim ex-- Re-contact response?

    She is bad news mate - drop her and let her f**k about with some other poor guy. Just be very glad it isn't you she is cheating on.

    As for working together and 'forced contact' - you're a confident guy with no axe to grind so just say hello if you see her. Don't try and bump into her though or try to avoid her - just carry on as if nothing has happened. Nothing else! No conversation - she's not worth the effort mate. As my coach used to say - she had her shot at the title - and she blew it.

    Good luck and be strong - if you see her squirm and act uncomfortable when you act as if nothing has happened it will feel great.

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    Winmau is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Reclaim ex-- Re-contact response?

    Haha, thanks for the response, much appreciated. I have actually been going out and having the time of my life the last couple of weeks and pulled when i least expected it. Goes to show what a positive outlook and outgoing lifestyle can bring. Now when i see her im back to being alpha and not giving a cr4p. All a life experience I guess and life goes on


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