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    Default My fucking sob story

    I haven't posted on this forum for months now. You see I was in a happy relationship with DG.

    Anyways, I love this girl but its over.

    Its over cause I kissed (but not fucked) another girl in front of DG's friends whilst she was outta town. This happened Saturday. Truth be told everything was going extremely well until I kissed this girl. she was cute but I accept to being the bad guy here.

    I've been out of game for 10 months man. So I guess the question is can I get her back? Yes there were good times and yes there were bad times as with all relationships. But she didn't leave me - I made her leave. So how should I play game here.

    My basic idea (more research needed as I'm rusty) is too phase it in over about 3 months?? Problems with that is I could meet another girl(cool), she's met a guy (not so cool)

    Any suggestions. Tonight i'm gonna go over Bill's literature on the subject....

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    Default Re: My fucking sob story

    Just to update this thread,

    I slept with DG on Thurs and am meeting with her tom night to discuss where we go from here i.e. to try again in a relationship or not. To be honest we may decide it best not to. That will be cool with me, although I am looking for some stability now and DG is an awesome gal. But we all know there are 100s of awesome gals out there.

    The last few months have been exceptionally trying from an emotional point of view. I actually find the situation ironic because up to about a year ago I was giving advice on this forum to guys in a similar situation and had no idea how trying the emotions actually are. I found self-discipline extremely difficult.

    A couple of things I want to share from my experience.
    1. I used Non-contact despite my heart telling me otherwise. This is very important.
    2. I have concentrated on building a business. Having a driven goal during this kind of trying time is important.
    3. I have been doing a lot of self-development going back to the very basics. This is very important.
    4. I continue with 2 and 3 regardless.
    5. I listened to everyone telling me that I farked up or she'll never take you back etc. People close to me telling me to move on etc. Now this advice had the best of intentions; but it was not advice from PUAs

    The idea is to work on yourself; constantly and consistently. Slow it down. I have come to appreciate the advice of the PUA community. The last few months would have been so much worse if I did not have the knowledge of PUA.

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    Default Re: My fucking sob story

    Just to add to the last post:

    6. I have been gymming and working out hard. This has been extremely beneficial with regards to keeping my mind healthy and alert and looking good.

    rs5096


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