Re: Failing hard on getting ex back
Why did you break up with her then? It seems like the only reason you now want her back is because someone else wants her. Don't be ashamed of that, it's just human nature. If I were you I would do some soul searching and really think about what you want before moving forward. At times we can be ruled by our emotions and the laws of human nature. Step outside of the box for a minute and figure out what you need in your life in order to be happy. Is it really her? If you weren't happy with her the first time around, and let her go as a result, what will change the next time around if you do get her back? Make a list of the pros and cons of being in a relationship with her before you get yourself set in motion to win her back. I could be wrong, but I really get the feeling from your writing that you only want her now because your ego has been bruised.
“The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of the engagement; you ought not to be thinking of whether it ends in victory or defeat. Let nature take its course, and your tools will strike at the right moment.” -Bruce Lee