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  1. #1
    threeonethree is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default So called Ex is gone.. Need help to move on.

    I used to have an internet relationship with this girl for 5+ years. After some time we broke up because i felt like we are not going to meet and have a normal relationship. I met a few girls in real life but i could not experience the same feelings. Then i started using PUA materials and went on few more dates and it was nice. I was having real success with women as for the first time in my life i was able to make them experience feelings which i thought were not possible. I felt like a lively guy and very powerful.

    However, it did not last long as the material i was using gave me a somewhat "fake" personality. After some time i could not even keep track of my own personality ( what i was portraying to the women). There came a lot of sh1t tests and i could not keep up. Portraying who i was not (by remembering lines) felt like it was mentally exhausting. One day i got into a fight when somebody pushed me out of his sh1tty shop and i slapped him back for disrespect. He called out 6 of his guys on me , however i survived because i decided to fight back and some people came to my rescue.

    After this i constantly got mentally exhausted trying to consciously "be in pua mode" and getting offended/threatened by other guys on the inside and not getting any girls but acting "dont care" and "high value" on the outside.

    By this time i decided to quit pua outer game because it was exhausting and tried to concentrate on inner game for a while .. it also failed. I decided to reform my life and got a new job and started boxing lessons and bodybuilding. It made me physically fitter but is still not a way to get girls.

    I tried to talk to my online Ex again but it was very cold and we would fight after couple of mins. I would try after couple of months with same results. Couple of days ago she said she is seeing somebody else and asked me to leave her alone. I tried to use a bf destroyer and she said " You want me to die alone because we cannot be together.I am deleting my email account."

    It destroyed me and yesterday i found out that she has deleted her account. She lives in Turkey 3500 Kms away and i have only seen pictures. I know i cannot find her or get her back even if i do.

    I took a break from pua (or used some principles i learned) to lead a healthy life.. But how far can a man go without any woman in his life?

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    joanna2013 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: So called Ex is gone.. Need help to move on.

    Just make yourself get busy for other things or try to go outside and have a date with someone else. Moving on is not just sitting around and wait until the broken heart is gone.

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    threeonethree is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: So called Ex is gone.. Need help to move on.

    "Try to go outside and have a date with somebody else"

    If that was so easy for me then whey did i have an online relationship with a damaged girl living 3500 Kms away for 5 years?

    If i get busy with my life and not worrying/caring about getting a girl then time passes and i dont get any. I am called a social outcast.

    If i try hard to get a date then it becomes mentally unbearable as i constantly have to pose as somebody i am not.

    Currently i miss my gf badly even though its been 2 years since we broke up and i dated a few girls after that. You can judge my position from this fact.

    I feel empty inside like i am missing something. I cant even kill myself.

    I told her a thousand times not to leave me and she promised me not to .. Then she sees a psychologist and gets some meds and gets better..Gets into a college and starts seeing some guy and deletes her email. that farking bitch, i was with her when she was going through toughest times. At some point i wanted her to be happy even if it hurt me.. Now however it seems like i am fucked.

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    monoposto is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: So called Ex is gone.. Need help to move on.

    First off.... Get a hold of yourself. Only you can control what goes on inside your head, don't give anyone else the power to do that.

    Second, don't memorize shit, that's why you got shit tested was because you went spouting off lines that were not congruent with who you really were. At some point your ex liked you for you, I guarantee you she won't be the only one. So go on dates and be yourself.

    Third, everyone has a story of some shitty time in their lives, go talk to someone, write it down, find a way to let your anger and emotions out.


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