Re: Forced Contact !! But how to act now ???
Are you saying she dumped you before she got with the other guy in that very last line? If that is the case she didn't cheat on you she left you, there is a big difference. I will never be angry with a woman for breaking up with me BEFORE she slept with another man.
Ignoring her and showing emotional weakness is NOT the way to get her back, it just shows her that she has done the right thing. How are you supposed to support her emotionally if you can't even handle your own?
I'll put some real thought into this for you, and reply later, but at the moment you have both went NC and you have both moved on. You need to quit sabotaging yourself by being an asshole to her.
Be HAPPY when she is around. SHE SHOULD NOT DICTATE YOUR HAPPINESS. Even if you have to fake it. Let her in on the jokes, build Tension with her. Stand close when you talk to her, see if you can make her remember what she felt when you were bonded. I'll post more later.
KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple