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    Chino45 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default What do you think of this situation.

    So my ex and I broke up about 1 year ago. Met up again around November last year, on occasion did the nasty but I became AFC... Convo, texts, seeing each other became rare then stopped. I started NC and held it for a month and some weeks, up until NOW! Dun Dun Dun....... Lol no but seriously, I ran into her at school today. I was walking and I heard someone say my name, looked to my left and she was standing in the middle of the hall. All smiles, she gestured a hug but my arms were busy.. We made small talk but I had an exam and I was late so I left... Based on her reaction and what not, tell me what you feel about the situation. Feed Back commence...Go!

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    Chino45 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: What do you think of this situation.

    Anyone have anything to add to this? Many thanks

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    Default Re: What do you think of this situation.

    First of all, well done for keeping up NC. It is the only way to go.

    You bumped into your ex 2 weeks ago, you said hello, excused yourself, kept your cool and presumably have kept NC since then. Well done on that too.

    I also presume you haven't heard from her since you bumped into her.

    Based on this, my advice would be not to do anything. If she wants to find you, she will.

    For now, just focus on trying to move on and keep NC.

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    Default Re: What do you think of this situation.

    What is it you are actually trying to accomplish here? Getting her back into a relationship, or keeping her as a booy-call?
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    Chino45 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: What do you think of this situation.

    I still miss her though. I just want some closure, not to sound like a little bitch..

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    Default Re: What do you think of this situation.

    Hey man.

    Closure comes from yourself when you finally begin to accept that it is over for good and there is no going back.

    The only way you can do that is by keeping NC and moving on, one day at a time.

    If you accidentally bump into her, do what you did before. Say hello and that's it.

    If you keep thinking she might want you back, you are keeping things open for yourself and it will take longer to accept it is finally over. Stop that right now and remember the way she treated you -she had her chance bro.

    All the best.


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