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    fyl_24 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Thanking my ex??

    I broke up with my ex almost 2 months ago after being in a 5 yr relationship. I've been in NC for over 40 days and Since the breakup, I've been working out like crazy, doing extremely well at work (I'm in sales), and planning on moving out of my parents' house. I've been treating myself and just improving my overall look and I'm feeling physically, mentally, and emotionally better than ever. Would it be a good idea to text her to thank her for waking me up and for lighting a fire under my ass? We don't have any mutual friends so I can't even let the word spread to her. Thanks for any feed back

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    fyl_24 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Thanking my ex??

    And I forgot to mention, she's also dating this dude now since we broke up lol

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    Default Re: Thanking my ex??

    Personally I think you might be in position to just send her a nice message like hi how you doing sort of thing. Then depending on the response maybe send it

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    Default Re: Thanking my ex??

    No, just say fuck it and move on. Good for you, keep it up!
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Thanking my ex??

    I think you should leave the message. If you attribute your success to her then the success could disappear if you tell her just how well you are doing.

    Instead be inwardly grateful that you had this opportunity to improve your life. That you met her and then find a different woman who will appreciate you and how far you've come but never stop working hard. You now owe it to yourself to enjoy the better life that you have earned through your hard work.

    Your ex may well have been the fire but you were the achiever, so continue to prove to yourself and others exactly how good you can be. Good luck!

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    fyl_24 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Thanking my ex??

    Thanks for the feedback guys, it's much appreciated.


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