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    Exclamation I was her high school crush.

    Me, mohawk, tight plaid pants, mohawk, blind in one eye, athletic build, loud and loved to party. Her a tiny little spanish girl, fit as anything, firey as hell, full red lips and always wanted me.

    Part of that attraction was the fact that I practically never paid one iota of attention to her but when I did she would swoon.

    Last summer I ran into her leaving the local mall, let her walk passed me and yelled, 'Don't I know you?' She told me later her heart skipped a beat. We exchanged information and I said I had to go.

    It was a few months since then, I'd been living it up in the summer. Met a german girl to bring home to my bisexual girlfriend for fun. Ended up getting bored with my girlfriend and just wanted the german so that happend for awhile till she went back to Germany.

    Obviously I knew that this spanish girl was a sure thing so I messaged her on Facebook, 'let's stop pussy footing around and do this.' so she laughed and said okay. We met the subsequent week. She had just gotten out of a previous relationship two weeks prior.

    We had been texting and sexting for about a month after that, she was over at my place all the time, bringing over towels, clothes dishes. I was all for it which was probably a boundary mistake. I could have kept her craving me by busying myself with other thigns but I got wrapped up in the constantly good sex and fun times.

    Then she gave me an ultimatum which freaked the sh1t out of me and I lost my game, instead of me taking the centre position in myself and ignoring it I let it get to my head and ended up looking like a beta b***h. Her ultimatum was, in two weeks she'd have to evaluate whether or not she wanted to stay in the relationship because she didn't want to make 'same old mistakes again' like leading on something she didn't think was going to last and subsequently cheating on her bf, an old pattern. She made an excuse saying she's looking for marraige material and if I were to meet her parents I'd have to shave off my mohawk, so I did. sh1t went down hill from there. I thought it was a good sign she showed up at my place the night before, Friday night. I hadn't been home so she let herself into my place with the key and found her lying in my bed. We farked and hung out all day and after she got off work. We teased eachother back and forth on Monday but then that night I delivered her another deal breaker. She passed out while texting me and I was telling her not to fark with me and wanted to talk all night. She saw my texts in the morning and was really annoyed. Then on Tuesday, the night we were supposed to hang out that she had rescheduled (the week before she had rescehduled on my twice). I said that I had sh1t to do so I need a yes or no. When it was a no I was like, 'Okay can I tell you why I've been nervous for the passed week?' She said, 'Sure'. So I asked her about the two week ultimatum and her response was as follows. 'I hate making you feel this way, I'm sorry but we have to talk.' She went on to say conflicting things like she said I wasn't gentleman enough, but then said that I wasn't the badass in highschool anymore, she also tried to use the fact I went back to smoking as a deal breaker which was never an issue before. My conclusion is that I ended up making myself, like I said before, 'look like a beta b**ch.'

    She ended up breaking up with me last week and I want her back. I've read the posts listed in Cody's Sticky and the post itself is really great but these are the differences in situation.

    I was emotional when she left, didn't cry or anything but just AFC sh1t. I asked her if she wanted to be friends and she smiled and said, 'I thought you told me if we ever broke up you wouldn't be my friend?' and my reply was, 'I don't know if I can be your friend, I don't know if I even want that 100 bucks you owe me. I'll try and contact you next week.' That was it.

    So this is the current sitch. She deleted me off Facebook so now I can't make her jealous by having her see my posts with other women, of which I have very many beautiful friends and ex lovers. Further, how can I continue no contact when in two days I'm supposed to get this cash back from her? I'm tempted to just let it slide and then run into her at a party surrounded by other women. Then of course there's the possiblity of breaking that no contact and meeting up with her at which point I can start building up that comfort zone and give her subtle body language. If you have any other analysis of the situation or can advise me on what decisions to make, many props.

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    Default Re: I was her high school crush.

    Dude......

    Time to freeze her out, and go out and hopefully she'll see you with other women while you continue to ignore her. If she still likes you, she'll be furious : P

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    Default Re: I was her high school crush.

    Yes, I agree, freeze her out. Sounds like a s**t test. I think she is subconsciousely trying to find if you are actually Beta and give in to chase her. She may actually be scared of herself getting hurt and has left before she can be. I think my ex has this problem.

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    Default Re: I was her high school crush.

    Just saw a mutual friend post they're hanging out. This girl knows her friend (also a girl) and I talk, our friend was also online which I take as another shit test, expecting me to react. That friend and I are going out on the weekend so whichever girls numbers I get she's def going to hear about it. We already made plans to chill so I'm just going to go about it like I didn't see shit. Going with the Freeze Out, thanks guys. Let you know how it goes

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    Default Re: I was her high school crush.

    This isn't a shit test. You've already failed the shit tests. She told you to change and compromise your values, and you did. That was the shit test--you failed.

    Stop moaning and groaning and man up. Time to get over this girl and move on. I mean, you went total bitch on this one and I think you need to focus on finding yourself again.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: I was her high school crush.

    Yep, that much is a given I dlv'd instead of DHVing. Taken this passed week to own up to my short comings and improving, already have three dates lined up for the week. Also got the pandora's box system, interested in putting those techniques into play. I'll post a field report next week.

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    Default Re: I was her high school crush.

    Glad to hear it man. I like to see guys who realize this and move on. Don't get hung up on one girl.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: I was her high school crush.

    Yea man, it's not about how hard one falls but how high you bounce back afterward.
    For other guys having difficulties with the ex I'd suggest searching 'How to Eliminate One-Itis - Tyler Durden.'

    I'll share this little interaction aswell for others wondering, 'wtf should I do if I run into my ex?'
    So,funny enough I ran into her on Valentine's Day. She was behind me, we must have been on the same bus and I didn't even notice. She had this retarded 'Oh, no' look on her face when I turned around and saw her. I said in just a really chill manner,
    'Hey, I didn't expect to see you here.'
    Her expression doesn't change, fear/nervousness. Enter comfort,
    'Don't worry I'm on my way somewhere anyways.'
    'Oh ok.' Wow the mannequin speaks. I continue, 'I meant to text you about today but I've just been really busy. We'll touch base in a couple days'.
    She said, 'Sure,' and we went our seperate ways.
    Not two minutes later I look down at my phone and she's texted me, 'Hey have fun tonight ' so when I got the chance I sent a polite, 'u2!' The exclaimation point was to express the fact idgaf about her anymore. She had her chance and I wouldn't even go out with her again what am I looking for charity?

    I actually did have plans yesterday night and ended up meeting another girl after that date, again I'll elaborate on that in my field report next week after we meetup.

    Now it's been a week and I want that hundred bucks to pay for all my new dates. I'm meeting up with my ex tonight to grab it but it wasn't easy arranging the pickup. This was me initiating contact.

    'Damn, I know you're usually busy on Sundays but if you could meet me either today or tomorrow for 2 min to drop off that cash that'd be awesome. If not whatever.'

    Her, 'I won't have it till Thurs.'

    The next day 'That wrks, Disgraceland 6:43'

    Her 'Wht?'

    Me, 'That's where you can drop it off'

    Her 'What is this? I don't jsut drop it off'

    Me 'Okay 6:43 it is'

    Her 'You know what, I'll meet you at a Subway station or something after work nad you can get it.'

    Me 'M, why are you mad?'

    Her 'Because you're giving me a time and a place. Like how do you know I can even make that time? On top of that you were all like. 'I don't even know if I ant the money. But fine whatever. I can't do that time. ANytime after 11pm on Thurs is when I can.

    Me 'Cool. U know where Dland is? Dovercourt and Bloor. I'm in the area all night so 11 works. Ttyl.

    She's probably pissed because she can't control me anymore, haha. It felt great to tell her what the plan was regardless of her reaction and ignore it. Meeting her serves a two fold purpose. I have a date so I can excuse myself a few hours in and keep her wanting more and then I get my cash while showing my ex that I'm doing great.


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