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    SharpyQ is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Question Need advice on ex behavior with me.

    Hello,

    I've been wanting to make ex fall for me again. Been together 5 years and now says she ain't in love anymore. We still live together. It's been 2 months since break up but she still has couple behavior with me sometimes.

    She sometimes asks me for hugs, she lets me kiss her on the head, she even let me see her in the bath naked (she was just hiding behind one arm and let me tell you, one arm doesn't cover all she has up there... ). She shows me clothing that is very revealing, she doesn't mind when I flirt a little with her, I could go on and on...
    She says she doesn't want to give me false signals but still does. I talked to her about it and she said she was sorry and that they didn't mean anything, that she didn't do it on purpose.

    Last night, she still accepted to go ice skating with me and I filmed her a few seconds. I watched it and I can clearly hear her say : "I'm ice skating baby! Are you filming me ? I haven't showed her the clip yet but could it be that deep down she still has feelings for me or would it be just that she was used to call me that and it came out as a habit.

    I need advice on if I should let go or if I'm on the right path to getting her back. She is driving me crazy inside. Never know if it means something or if I shouldn't take it into consideration. Is she trying unconsciously to get my attention? Am I seeing things? Help me out on this, please!

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    Default Re: Need advice on ex behavior with me.

    Hey man.

    Sounds like a strange situation to me - together for 5 years - broke up 2 months ago but you still live together? So you obviously still get on ok? But she dumped you? She wants you as a friend or what? Sounds like a recipe for disaster bro.

    You won't get over her and/or get your emotions under control in this situation. Not sure on living arrangements here (who is paying rent etc) but this is a lose/lose situation for you if she doesn't want to get back with you but still wants to stay with you.

    You need to find out what she is thinking and then decide what to do. You can't freeze her out properly if you live together so if she doesn't want you back, time to break up properly and leave it for now. Pretty drastic but you have no choice here.

    Good luck and be strong bro.

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    SharpyQ is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need advice on ex behavior with me.

    Actually, we still live together because we are both on the lease and we can't afford it alone either of us. We have separate rooms though. We managed to turn the office as an extra room for her. Lease is till July.

    Thanks for the reply though.

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    Default Re: Need advice on ex behavior with me.

    Simple, read the tips on the forum. The relationship went bad for a reaason, probably just stale dude. She's comfortable with you but you need to reinitiate the seduction process from the beginning and build up to taking her out. If it doesn't work out it doesn't work out and then you MUST move out to move on. I have an ex fiance. She broke up with me because she wanted me to work and take care of her for 6 years and put my one year degree on hold, so I went to school anyways. When she broke up with me, I was like 'oh well.' and started dating other women, we farked and she accused me of rape. Then one day I came back for a date she was like, 'let's fark.' and I was like fuck you move out. Even though it was hard for me to make payments (I was on welfare) I ate kraft dinner and tuna for a few months until I finally found work. Moral of the story is, it's either all or nothing. Fix it or move on but don't waste your time hanging around in limbo. You owe that to yourself.


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