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    canuckkk is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Having a great time infront of your EX

    Here are some quick notes about my ex,

    -she already has a new guy in her life, picking him up after breaking up with me
    -we share the same social circle of good friends
    -we broke up in nov, and established that we would put our hate aside and be civil towards each other
    - I have been no contact with her since Jan

    Last night I came back from gaming up the bar and it felt great! I was very motivated to really show the lose animal that I am in front of my ex, and it ended up happening without me trying too hard.

    Essentially I was at a point where I knew the rights and wrongs of what do to at the bar. So instead of being a frustrated loser about the presence of my ex and her bf bothering me, I had approached them while they were standing among other friends, to only to have a good laugh and exchange some friendly gestures towards my ex's bf. Which caused my ex to completely ignore me and walk else where.

    As the night continued I was opening sets left and right with great energy and a lot of pictures were being taken of the HBs I was with. Consequently, I had spotted my ex witnessing the majority of this and the odd times I would look to make eye contact with her she would instantly turn away and wonder off. There must have been 4-5 instances where she witnessed myself opening and engaging in full sets with groups of women and im sure it must have irritated her. To add the icing on the cake, I ended up buying the new bf of her's a drink and shared more laughs and ended up becoming buddies, and the club photographer snapped some shots of us (no homo) which really flipped the script for my EX. She didnt dance the entire night, she sat watching our mutual friends (as she usually does in bars) and followed her BF here and there but for the most part I clearly had a MUCH better night than she did! The bar night had ended, and I had bounced to a toga party right after which my Ex was aware of me leaving for, and she found out about the great time and the girls I ended up closing there as well.

    All in all, I found it funny. We had post break up talk sometime in December, we got out our bottled feelings and established that we would be civil and acknowledge each other and not be so hasty towards one another. Turns out she didnt greet me, talk to me, or accept a quick hi-five once I was walking past her in the club (leaving me to laugh out loud and playfully hi-five her back as she walked away). I take it I must be doing something right for her to be like this? Thoughts and discussions would be awesome

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    thegreatcucumber is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Having a great time infront of your EX

    I did pretty much the same thing a couple months ago. Except I added her BF on Facebook after yucking it up with him at a party.

    My ex got super pissed and told me to stop fucking with her and stay out of her life. It was glorious, I didn't even think this guy knew about me. I just want him to know that I fucked his girl and finished in her mouth the day before she kissed him.

    You can't push it too hard, though. Or you're making it obvious that you're just trying to spite her.

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    Default Re: Having a great time infront of your EX

    Man it sounds like you are having a great time. Enjoy it for what it is though and never mind what your ex thinks.

    Remember two things though bro 1) she is your ex for a reason 2) every relationship has a beginning, a middle and an end (unless you are gonna marry this girl!). So if it is over for good, be civil and do not give her cause to dislike you. Thiis is especially true if you are in the same social circle - you do not want her badmouthing you.

    The best revenge is living life to the full and forgetting about her. As my old coach used to say 'she had her shot at the title and she blew it'.

    You are moving on bro - well done.

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    Default Re: Having a great time infront of your EX

    Thanks guys, definitely took me a while to get back onto my feet. I still have those moments where I really want to re-connect to my ex and establish the peace, but she is no where near ready nor will ever be for that matter, so ill let her come to me and break the NC herself (if she ever does).

    She has already bad mouthed me to my social circle, as our break up was messy with alot of conflicting variables due the person she is, but it doesn't phase me and it hasn't really changed my friendship with our fellow friends. She brought this break up upon herself, first to want to end things with me without me having a clue, and the first to fall into a security blanket by getting a new bf behind the scenes.

    As for being civil, I will continue to be. Given im put into a situation where I have to be in contact with her, as its clear she isnt looking to be civil or in contact at all with me lol. Which is funny, as I mentioned previously how we established a meeting on being civil with each other. I assume she doesnt want to see me happy, or wasnt ready for the flip in the script by seeing me have a good time, truly is a shame I would have loved to have a normal friendly relationship down the road before she leaves my city (shes only here for school) and eventually never comes back in the future. I'll continue to focus on my priorities and keep on having fun! Thanks guys


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