Here are some quick notes about my ex,
-she already has a new guy in her life, picking him up after breaking up with me
-we share the same social circle of good friends
-we broke up in nov, and established that we would put our hate aside and be civil towards each other
- I have been no contact with her since Jan
Last night I came back from gaming up the bar and it felt great! I was very motivated to really show the lose animal that I am in front of my ex, and it ended up happening without me trying too hard.
Essentially I was at a point where I knew the rights and wrongs of what do to at the bar. So instead of being a frustrated loser about the presence of my ex and her bf bothering me, I had approached them while they were standing among other friends, to only to have a good laugh and exchange some friendly gestures towards my ex's bf. Which caused my ex to completely ignore me and walk else where.
As the night continued I was opening sets left and right with great energy and a lot of pictures were being taken of the HBs I was with. Consequently, I had spotted my ex witnessing the majority of this and the odd times I would look to make eye contact with her she would instantly turn away and wonder off. There must have been 4-5 instances where she witnessed myself opening and engaging in full sets with groups of women and im sure it must have irritated her. To add the icing on the cake, I ended up buying the new bf of her's a drink and shared more laughs and ended up becoming buddies, and the club photographer snapped some shots of us (no homo) which really flipped the script for my EX. She didnt dance the entire night, she sat watching our mutual friends (as she usually does in bars) and followed her BF here and there but for the most part I clearly had a MUCH better night than she did! The bar night had ended, and I had bounced to a toga party right after which my Ex was aware of me leaving for, and she found out about the great time and the girls I ended up closing there as well.
All in all, I found it funny. We had post break up talk sometime in December, we got out our bottled feelings and established that we would be civil and acknowledge each other and not be so hasty towards one another. Turns out she didnt greet me, talk to me, or accept a quick hi-five once I was walking past her in the club (leaving me to laugh out loud and playfully hi-five her back as she walked away). I take it I must be doing something right for her to be like this? Thoughts and discussions would be awesome