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    numa is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need advice to get her back PART2

    Hi everyone;
    Here we are my ex contacted me yesterday evening by SMS after I initiated about 6 days of no communication since last seen her....
    She offered me to get together in a spread of couple of weeks (after this week)for a festival...
    I found that funny,when she broke up with she is the one who initiated the contact first and she had offered me too to get together in a spread of couple of weeks too...it sounds like 5 or 6 days with NC it s her maximum so far,and that she always trying to make sure I won t say no to her invitations by giving me a spread of days????I am gonna wait now 2 or 3 days before to reply to her...what do you think about this behaviour taking into account my first post???
    cheers

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    Default Re: Need advice to get her back PART2

    Hey man,

    I bet you feel good right now. Remember that feeling and also remember how terrible you feel when you chase and she isn't interested. That is why you have to stay in control at all costs.

    So after six days NC, she breaks it and offers you a selection of dates. That is way too easy for her bro and if you agree you are back on her hook again.

    Ignore the text. If she follows up with another one asking to meet again, say you are busy and you cannot see her.

    As I said, enjoy being in control and if she walks then realise this was a stupid sh** test. Which you passed by not being beta.

    It is her loss bro - remember that too.

    Be strong. Be disciplined. Be the farking man.

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    numa is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need advice to get her back PART2

    Hi ...

    The problem is that I already accepted and I gave her a reply 3 days after to meet up on the 14th,to watch this movie festival...
    Then I realised that I had another date available wich was the 6th,the day after I sent her a text I decided the give her a ring to find out if it was possible to make it for the 6th...she picked up the phone staight away which was really unlikely while I was with her before...the 6th was not good for her (she had a dinner) and neither the 14th(she ll be away for work..) Iknow I staffed up that day...but read this...I told her I would decide of another date and let her know the next day,what I did and I suggeted her the 12th..The day after that I was on my FB page ,and I realised that I received an invitation from an ex girlfriend of mine of 2 years ago sent me a Friend request...2 hours after I accepted the request ,the girlfriend I try to get back at the moment send me a link on my FB wall (view by all my friends)for the movie and started to chat with me by wall post which has never happened before...she told me basically she would take care of the tickets,and I told her I knew a rstaurant we could go before and that I ll make the booking,she replied 'team work'...next day she posted again on my wall telling me she bought the tickets,I waited 2 days to text her I had booked the restaurant,and she replied straight away which never happened before ....

    I know that the strategy is kind one step forward two step backward...
    When I m thinking about it since she broke up we saw each other twice, the first time she initiated the contact first to do something and the second time was me and at the end of that meeting I kissed her and walk away and she is the one coming back basically asking more....It means after I see her next tuesday It will be kind of my turn to invite her again but I won t do it,I will let her coming back to me even if it takes longer and will ignore her or tell her I m busy ....
    Now there is another aspect,That night I kissed her again and walked off her parents was supposed to come over for the week end the day after and she had to talk to her father about things ,she asked me how to bring up the topic and I gave her advice for that...when I phoned her up last time she told me she talked to him and that she did it the way we talked about,It means in a way she is under my hook in a way,she listens to me no????


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