I was in a long distance relationship for about 1.4 years. I am 28, she is 25. Met her in a club and after a couple of great weekends she wanted to be my girlfriend and after careful consideration, I agreed and it has been a blast since, wonderful, good, good times.
After 8 months she did something strange. My friends and we went to a club, good times, dancing, everything. All of a sudden she tells me: 'I am bored' while I am right in the middle of playing darts with my friends so I suggest her to dance with the other friends we are with on the dance floor. She starts crying and rushes out of the club. Note: We are in my town, she has no keys to my place. Nothing. I am like fark, this is crazy, and run after her. She completely loses it but eventually I calm her down. Turns out she has been adopted, two times and struggles with that, her last boy friend treated her not good and now she wants to face those issues.
1 month later. We cuddle in my bed, all good, and out of nothing, she starts to cry again. She saw a wallpaper on my dekstop pc - they constantly change and are always covered by my chrome browser window so you only see a small part of the picture - the picture was just a random hipster girl pic on it. Note: The picture has been on my harddrive for ever and she must have seen it countless times. She asks me to delete all those picture, I tell her that there is no reason, she is above all those woman who can never amount to her.
2 month pass. We argue way more than before and she always starts it for dubious reasons. Generally speaking: There is something wrong but she wont tell me and I just cant figure it out.
Last weekend we were supposed to meet, I tell her to arrive at 6. She says she would want to come at 4 and I tell her I cant make 4 and 6 should be fine since we have four days of pleasure ahead of us. Huge fight starts on the phone, I tell its better to discus this face to face.
So she arrives at 7, no kiss, no hug, nothing. She is in tears. Guess she wants to break up. She says, and I quote, 'You never support me'. I go berserk, tell her how disrespectful her words are and ask for an apology. She apologies and so do I for not seeing her earlier on Friday. All seams good, we go out, only the two of us, we both agree that this was important for our relationship. She called her best female friend though, which I caught by accident, something like 'cant believe it, its all good, we are still together, I thought I would be single by now'.
1.5 days pure happiness, in my arms she tells me how much of a good man I am and how happy she is to have me. I tell her I love her. She loves me too, she says. We make lots of plans for the next weekend.
On Sunday we wake up. It is our No-Hook-Up-Day since we hook up A LOT in our relationship. She wants to but I tell her to get off, it is our NHUD. She gets up, sees a part 'of the picture' on my desktop pc again and is complete silent. Tears in her eyes. We go for a walk as we had planned. Lots of accusations from her. I tell her it might be better for her to leave for today.
She says (without hesitation): No, its better when we never see each other again and end the relationship forever. I am shocked, turn around and cant say a word and walk away. She whispers: 'You only need to apologize'. We arrive at my place where she starts to pack ALL HER stuff, even her used tooth brush. At the door she says she regrets deeply what she just said and how very much she loves me but just cant be in our relationship. I am still shocked.
5 hours later she writes me a msg on Facebook how much she still loves me, she cant bear the thought of me ever falling in love with another girl and that she is sorry for not meeting my requirements to a relationship. She wishes me all the best and so on, and so on and that she the wants the relationship to end. She deletes me on Facebook and so does her best female friend.
This has happened two days ago I am still shocked, it all ended so quickly. What would you guys do? Every answer/tip, means A LOT to me. Thanks in advance guys.