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    JT2012 is offline PUA in Training
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    Post Ex with new BF playing games. Help?

    So My EX and I broke up around 1.5 years ago. Being the idiot I was I decided to stay around and we continued the sex but still never became official again, I became the FWB. Fast forward to the present. We have had limited to no contact for around 5 months. In those 5 months something interesting yet confusing has happened.

    1.) She approached me at a party, when I ignored her she bitched to her BFF and her current dude. Her BFF and boyfriend cornered me and chewed me out.

    2.) She randomly blocked me on facebook as well as my number. When I got to talk to her I asked why and she said she "wanted to move on" as well as other reasons. One of the BIG reasons was that she found out I had a 3-some a month prior with a mutual friend. WHY WOULD IT BOTHER HER IF ALL I AM TO HER IS A "friend" like she always says. She also told me that "last year I would of had a chance with her" which I felt insulted for because she ALWAYS had another dude around her and I was always the fallback dude when they left.

    3.) I was blocked on facebook for a month or so and then she temporary unblocked me this Valentines day, then reblocked me the day after. (Mind you we are NOT friends of Facebook, I would just see her comments on mutual friend's pages)

    4.) Now, out of nowhere, I am unblocked on FB again.

    This is her first relationship since me. Her BF is hardcore threatened by me and has created a human wall if we stand next to each other at a club or something. She even told my best friend once that I understand her better than her new BF.


    My question guys is WHAT GIVES? I am so hella confused. She told me she blocked me to move on and one day we can sit and talk when her life is in order. I'm going to guess she will visit my apartment one of these days to talk. I wanna talk about several things, where we went wrong, what I wish was different, how I am a skinner (gym!) and more confident guy.

    IDK. I want her to miss the shit outta me and see her boyfriend as my rebound. (BF destroyer advice would be amazing because im a noob with that topic)

    How can I achieve this. I know somewhere in her heart she has feelings. Why else would she unblocked me on valentines day or get upset each time she finds out im dating/fucking someone else.

    I want her back and before anyone judges YES I have been with plenty of other women and dated others but that connection just isn't there like it is with her.

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    Default Re: Ex with new BF playing games. Help?

    A lot of dudes have viewed this topic but not one person has added anything. Advice would be helpful.

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    Default Re: Ex with new BF playing games. Help?

    Maybe the reason why you are not getting any responses is that the members feel like the police respnding to a domestic dispute where advice is given but the couple still arrive at the same point in the future fighting once more. I looked at your previous posts and I honestly don't know why but it seems like I responded a few months back and you were at the same point with your ex. Not much has changed but it seems to me that you and your ex are ment for each other if that is what you want to hear. She makes sure you are aware of her new boyfriend and you ensure that she knows about your relationships with other women because if you were discreet she would never know. The only way this is going be settled is that you invite her over to your place under the mask of farking but talk about what went wrong. If you don't you will be posting on this board in a few months with the same problem and still getting zero responses. Good luck to you man!

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    Default Re: Ex with new BF playing games. Help?

    In your situation the best move to make is NO MOVES!!!!! Be a samurai, meaning you defend to attacks... Never attack first! until you feel you are at a point where you do not have to ignore her when she approaches you will be a ghost. When she does approach a friendly "Hows it going?" will do... If she instigates a fight, leave.

    You are at the point where you are to be doing nothing but working on yourself... While you are doing this, do your hardest to get over her. Then, and only then... when you feel as if your emotions are under control are you allowed to make contact.

    Do not tell her about how confident you are, if you are really that confident it will show. Trust me, Telling someone these things comes off as Beta... She may compliment you on how much you changed... Change the subject, let her know you don't have time for her bullshit. But, also be positive and dont give her shit until her mouth is inches from your dick!


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