So My EX and I broke up around 1.5 years ago. Being the idiot I was I decided to stay around and we continued the sex but still never became official again, I became the FWB. Fast forward to the present. We have had limited to no contact for around 5 months. In those 5 months something interesting yet confusing has happened.
1.) She approached me at a party, when I ignored her she bitched to her BFF and her current dude. Her BFF and boyfriend cornered me and chewed me out.
2.) She randomly blocked me on facebook as well as my number. When I got to talk to her I asked why and she said she "wanted to move on" as well as other reasons. One of the BIG reasons was that she found out I had a 3-some a month prior with a mutual friend. WHY WOULD IT BOTHER HER IF ALL I AM TO HER IS A "friend" like she always says. She also told me that "last year I would of had a chance with her" which I felt insulted for because she ALWAYS had another dude around her and I was always the fallback dude when they left.
3.) I was blocked on facebook for a month or so and then she temporary unblocked me this Valentines day, then reblocked me the day after. (Mind you we are NOT friends of Facebook, I would just see her comments on mutual friend's pages)
4.) Now, out of nowhere, I am unblocked on FB again.
This is her first relationship since me. Her BF is hardcore threatened by me and has created a human wall if we stand next to each other at a club or something. She even told my best friend once that I understand her better than her new BF.
My question guys is WHAT GIVES? I am so hella confused. She told me she blocked me to move on and one day we can sit and talk when her life is in order. I'm going to guess she will visit my apartment one of these days to talk. I wanna talk about several things, where we went wrong, what I wish was different, how I am a skinner (gym!) and more confident guy.
IDK. I want her to miss the shit outta me and see her boyfriend as my rebound. (BF destroyer advice would be amazing because im a noob with that topic)
How can I achieve this. I know somewhere in her heart she has feelings. Why else would she unblocked me on valentines day or get upset each time she finds out im dating/fucking someone else.
I want her back and before anyone judges YES I have been with plenty of other women and dated others but that connection just isn't there like it is with her.