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    CriticalRap is offline PUA in Training
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    Cool Did I just fail a shit test?

    So I split with my girlfriend on Friday and the last text I sent said that "I'm gonna need some space." She replied, and I didn't text her again. That night she texted me saying "I want cuddles " I didnt reply, then last night she text saying "I miss you what are you doing tonight?" I didn't reply until this morning simply saying "Yeah? I am tonight" to which she immediately replyed "It doesn't matter anymore" obviously I'm not gonna reply but was wondering if I was being sh1t tested and failed or is she testing me now? Or both?

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    Default Re: Did I just fail a sh1t test?

    Sorry to be blunt but it sounds like you failed. She knows she can have you. Go NC for a while

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    Default Re: Did I just fail a sh1t test?

    Figured as much, went no contact and she's messaged me again since saying "How you getting on? Idk about you, but I feel like utter shit"
    I didn't reply but the truth is I'm actually doing great, the break up was just what I needed to motivate myself to do more and become a more rounded person. Was tempted to text back telling her I'm doing well, but kept with NC.

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    Default Re: Did I just fail a sh1t test?

    That's good man. When you are no contact a person misses what they cant have or see. I went no contact after my ex cheated and ran off with someone else. We work together and when i was back i acted angry with her so she did the same back. Although she acted happy with the new guy, nrly 3 months later and she said she was depressed. Basically although she didnt act it, the no contact screwed with her as well but now its too late as the situation got heated and I ruined it by not going NC long enough and losing composure. Im still angry to this day and cant let go. I should have gone NC more than a month and held out until the right time.

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    Default Re: Did I just fail a shit test?

    Shi% test failed you can try and recover it should have replied that night and said ya im busy but don't know if I'll go

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    Default Re: Did I just fail a shit test?

    So I broke no contact today and said "Hope you're feeling better, wanna get a coffee before work?" To which she replyed "Would have when i was saying that" not sure if I should go no contact or game her, but I'm edging towards gaming her....

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    Default Re: Did I just fail a sh1t test?

    Id put " Ok, well if your coming ill be at xxx place at xxx time anyway, you should come" or something like that. Then if she doesnt show it wont make a difference because its like you were going anyway and she wont know if yo dont.

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    Default Re: Did I just fail a sh1t test?

    If you keep going NC and breaking it within a couple of weeks or a month or whatever, she will see the pattern and know you still want her. Stop contacting her bro.

    New rules - there can be no communication unless she initiates it. Try it.

    You can only game her if she is interested and you won't keep her interested if you keep popping up every now and again.

    You know the saying, people want what they can't have? Get into the Mindset that she cannot have you unless she earns it. Stop chasing.

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    Default Re: Did I just fail a sh1t test?

    She did initiate, i just took four days to reply... I had to go where she works and pick my mate up anyway so we spoke. Turns out her uncle had died the morning i texted her which she said is why she was off with me.

    She also said "You wouldn't even talk to me to beging with" she looked sad whilst saying it and gave me some other IOIs which is all good stuff. Now that i've already broken no contact, I was thinking of friend zoning her instead of going back no contact, just something like "I hope we can still be friends, you do make me laugh "


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